透過Jennifer Hoffman傳訊
找尋愛
是什麼原因，讓我們不斷地尋求完美的關係；願意接受苛求的工作；看上對自己不尊重的對象；或是讓自己聽到帶刺傷人的話語呢？是什麼讓我們如此渴切地想要著，即使是在付出高額代價，回報不成比例時，也心甘情願呢？是什麼當我們沒有，或是只擁有一點點時，都能讓我們窒息而死－不論是在情緒上、靈性上、心理上或是身體上？那就是＂愛＂。＂愛不單指有鮮花燭光的浪漫戀情，而是別人對我們的欣賞和尊重，因為他們讓我們知道自己是被珍惜的；自己是值得別人注意和疼惜的；那也表示我們一切都很好。當我們仔細檢視自己在生命中所作的一切努力，就不難發現我們所作的每一件事都有一個中心主題，那就是我們一直都在找尋愛。
“愛＂這個字眼最常被用在浪漫的戀情情節中，以致於我們都忘了”愛”其實是有很多面相的。舉例而言，我們對於朋友和具有重大意義的人們所付出的愛；我們對家庭的愛（即使沒有回報）；我們可以愛我們的職業或工作；愛自己的夢想和目標；愛整個地球、自然、寵物，甚至愛自己的車。我們也可以愛自己的新電視，或是最近的物質所得。也有許多人熱愛園藝、音樂、藝術、寫作或是其它的創意表現。有太多的方式可以表達愛，這些行為都反映了一個中心思想，那就是我們熱愛自己所珍惜和重視的。同樣地，我們也希望這種珍惜和重視，可以藉由尊重、讚美和欣賞的形式回報在我們身上，簡單地說，就是＂愛＂。
我們摸索著其他人愛我們的形式，其中包括了欣賞、尊重、榮耀和珍惜，因為想要知道自己是被其他人尊重的；其他人真的在乎我們，在乎我們所作的事，在乎我們是個人；這都表示了其他人願意將他們的情緒能量以正面的方式聚焦在我們身上。這也是為什麼當我們不了解這種思緒時，我們總是在不同的浪漫戀情、工作、職業、友誼和住所之間不斷地換來換去，我們總認為自己是在找尋快樂，其實總而言之，我們就是在找尋愛。
就靈性的觀點而言，大家都知道無條件的愛隨時都在源源不絕地供給著我們。然而，我們卻一直堅持要有具體的證據來證明自己是值得被愛的，以致於在物質層面上不斷地去挖掘。然而，愛並不一定出現在物質上。我們工作地很辛苦，但不一定都能如願地獲得我們需要或渴求的一切。最重要的原因在於，當我們面對整個世界時，如果沒有和自己內在無條件的愛之源頭相連結的話，我們就對愛產生了無底的需求。為了讓這需求被填補，我們就會不顧一切地去作所有的事。
當我們覺得不被其他人鍾愛，欣賞和珍惜時，自己也會感受到沉重的無力感，卻忘了我們所經歷的一切都是自己自我珍愛程度的投影。這不斷的循環，會讓我們看到更多自己愛不足的證據。當我們沒有發現愛或是去創造愛時，這循環將會持續不斷。當我們在每種情境中，向與我們相遇的人索求愛或是自我價值的證據時，所有的一切都將反射回到我們自己身上，陳述著我們不愛自己的程度。而我們也會愈來愈陷入這樣的循環中，因為這世上絕對沒有人可以給我們本來就不曾有的一切。
宇宙賦予我們每天每刻去愛的禮物，我們所要作的就是，讓愛映照顯現，讓我們對愛的需求轉換為對於我們已經擁有和現在就是愛的體悟。這體悟會讓我們更有力道，這體悟也將成為一股勢能去顯化我們的實相，讓我們的夢想成真，也將存於每個人之內的無條件之愛具體地創造出來。當我們體會到自己是多麼地美好、被愛著和值得被愛時，我們便已將愛投射在這個世界上，而世界也會透過每個情境和遇見的人們傳達給我們愛的訊息。對於愛的無底需求也會自動停止漫延，我們不需要再到處找尋愛，因為愛會自動找上我們。
Looking for Love
What makes us look for the perfect relationship, take on demanding jobs, turn a blind eye to those who are less than respectful to us or a deaf ear to unflattering or hurtful comments? What is the one thing that we want so desperately that we will tolerate a great deal to receive even a small percentage of it? What is the one thing that if we don’t have it, even in small amounts, we will die--emotionally, spiritually, mentally, and even physically? It is love. Not merely the romantic, flowers and candlelight kind of love, but the appreciation and respect that we receive from others that lets us know they value us, we are worthy of their attention and affection, that we are OK. When we distill all of our life efforts, we can find a central theme that appears throughout everything we have ever done, we’re just looking for love.
Love is so often used in the romantic sense that we forget about the many other aspects of love. The love we have, for example, for our friends or people who are close to us. The love we have for our family, even if it is not returned. We can have love for our career or job or love for our dreams and goals. We love the planet, nature, our pets and even our car. We can love our new television or recent material acquisition. Many of us have a love of gardening, music, art, writing or other activity that is an outlet for our creativity. There are many ways to love and they all focus on one thing, we love what we value. And we hope that this value is returned to us in the form of respect, admiration, appreciation—in short, love.
Our search for love, which includes appreciation, respect, honor and value, from others has its own agenda—we want to know to know that we are accepted, that someone cares enough about us, about what we do, who we are as a person, that they will focus their emotional energy on us in a positive way. When we don’t understand that this is what we want we move from one situation to another, whether it is romance, jobs, careers, friendships, where we live, thinking that we are looking for happiness, when we are really looking for love, in all of its forms.
From a spiritual perspective we know that we have an unlimited supply of unconditional love available to us all of the time. But we want physical proof of that love on the material plane, mirrored to us by others and situations that prove that we are worthy of being loved. And it is not always there. We can work hard for it but don’t always get as much as we need or want. There are several reasons for that, the most important of which is when we do not connect with our own inner source of unconditional love, we face the world with a bottomless need for love. We will do anything, or almost anything, to have that need filled.
When we feel unloved, unappreciated and unvalued by others we also feel powerless, forgetting that what we are experiencing is only a reflection of our own level of self-love. This is a self-perpetuating cycle that drives us farther into seeing proof of our lack of love. And we can’t find or create it and the cycle continues. When we look for love or proof of our value within each situation and person we encounter, all that is reflected back to us is how much we don’t love ourselves. And we get farther and farther into the cycle because no one can give us what we don’t already have.
The Universe gifts us with love every moment of every day, all we have to do is mirror it and let our need for love become an acknowledgement of the love that we already have and are. This makes us powerful, a force to be reckoned with when it comes to manifesting our reality, making our dreams come true and creating the physical proof of the unconditional love that exists within each one of us. When we have such an awareness of how wonderful, loved and lovable we are that we reflect that love to the world, the world will respond by sending us proof of that love in every situation and person that we encounter. And the bottomless need will be filed to overflowing and we will no longer look for love because love will come looking for us.
About the author
Jennifer Hoffman is an intuitive, spiritual healer, mentor, teacher and author. She also channels the energy of the Archangel Uriel. Jennifer has helped many people through the Shift through her unique insights and counsel, facilitating their healing journey.
Jennifer is the founder of www.urielheals.com, an on-line spiritual healing and growth center and dedicated to the messages and teachings of Archangel Uriel. Information about Jennifer's books, on-line seminars and services is available at her websites, or email healing@urielheals.com for information.
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