Past Life Patterns – The Ruler
前世模式——统治者模式
原文：http://yoursoulmission.com/2014/01/past-life-patterns-the-ruler/
Thisis the description of one of the 16 PastLife Patterns. These patterns were developed by KarenDowning, in order to help you understand how past life experiences affect yourlife today. Each person carries 3 to 5 past life patterns in varying levels ofinfluence. By understanding your unique mix of patterns, you can more easilybuild up your strengths and transform your challenges. Past life patterns arethe key to uncovering your Soul Mission.
这篇是16个前世模式之一的描述。这些模式是Karen Downing总结出来的，为了帮助你理解前世经历如何影响你今生的生活。每一个人都携带着3-5个前世模式，他们有不同程度的影响。通过理解你个人的独特的前世模式组合，你可以更容易地增强你的力量并转化你的挑战。前世模式是发现你的灵魂使命的关键。
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The Ruler Description –The Ruler needs to feel in control of all aspects of his or her life. Do youfear making the wrong decisions? Do you feel a deep sense of obligation tothose around you? If so, you have the qualities of The Ruler archetype.
统治者模式
统治者需要感觉到他/她的生活所有面向都在控制之中。你害怕做出错误的决定吗？你对你周围的那些人感到一种深深的责任感吗？如果是这样的话，那么你有一些统治者模式原型的品质。
When you get to know someone who has lived the Rulerpattern, they can come across as being very well put together, like they are incharge of everything around them. However, inside, the Ruler is often wroughtwith stress, anxiety and worry out of obligation for others in their life. Thiscan be their family, friends, co-workers, pets or any individual who they arestrongly attached to. The Ruler is a take charge individual, but often can getso wrapped up in what they feel is best, that they have a difficult timelistening to others clearly. Because of this, the Ruler can develop hearingloss if they do not address their inability to truly listen.
当你逐渐了解某些曾经历过统治者模式的人时，他们给人的印象是非常善于组织，就像他们掌管他们周围的一切似的。然而，在内在，统治者通常充满着压力、焦虑和担心，这是出于对于他们生活中的其他人的义务（责任）感。这可能是他们的家人、朋友、同事、宠物或任何他们感觉与他们非常有关联的人们。统治者是一个掌控型个体，但是通常可能会变得太沉醉于他们认为是最好的事情，所以他们在清晰地聆听他人方面有困难。由于这个原因，如果统治者不去处理他们无法真正聆听他人的问题，他们可能会有听力下降的问题。
Some of the typical past life experiences of the Rulerare as being an authoritative figure, such as an Emperor/Empress, Queen/King,etc. The Ruler can also have past lives as the leader of a union group,political party, religion, or any other type of organization. The mainchallenge of the Ruler pattern is that they were put in positions to makedecisions for others, time and time again. If you ever worry about making thewrong decisions, people trying to undermine you, or others not taking you“seriously”, then you have experienced the Past Life Pattern of the Ruler.
有一些典型的统治者的前世经历是作为权威人物，如皇帝/皇后、女王/国王，等等。统治者也可能会有作为联合团体、政党、宗教或任何其他类型组织的领导者。统治者模式的主要挑战（困难）是他们被一次又一次地放在了为其他人做决定的位置上。如果你曾经担心有关做错了决定，有关人们试图暗中破坏你，或者有关其他人不“认真”对待你，那么你曾经经历了统治者的前世模式。
Expression of the Ruler Pattern in Your Life Now –The Ruler feels compelled to be the one at the helm of the decision makingprocess. However, the pressure of making the “right” decision will always bestressful. There is often struggle to choose between the people who will beaffected by the decision, or the process (situation) itself, when makingdecisions for a larger group. The Ruler can experience substance abuse (especiallyto stimulants to keep them going), insomnia, ulcers, hearing loss, kneeproblems and OCD (obsessive-compulsive disorder). All of these issues have theemotional cause of the need to control the people and things around them.
统治者模式在你现在生活中的表达
统治者感觉有必要（理所应当）去掌握做决策的过程。然而，做“正确”决定的（外在）压力将总会产生（内在精神）压力。当为大一点的团体做决定时，在（需要为）受到这个决定影响的人和事情（处境）本身两者之间做选择时，通常会有一些（内心）挣扎。统治者可能会经历滥用药物（尤其是使他们坚持下去的刺激物（译注：如酒精、咖啡、兴奋剂等））、失眠、溃疡、听力下降、膝盖问题以及强迫症(OCD，强迫性神经官能症)。所有这些问题都有在情绪上的原因，就是需要控制周围的人和事物。
There are two ways that the Ruler theme revealsitself; The Compassionate Ruler and the Driven Ruler. If you resonate with TheRuler pattern, you might discover that you can possess qualities of one, oreven both of the ways that The Ruler is expressed. Often in one area of life youcan feel one way, and in another area of life feel another way.
统治者主题有两种方式呈现其自身：即同情心型统治者以及分发图强型统治者。如果你与统治者模式有共鸣，你也许会发现你可能会有以上两种统治者表达模式中的一种或甚至两种都有。通常，在一个生活领域中，你可能感觉是一种样子，在另一个生活领域里，你感觉可能又是一个样子。
The Compassionate Ruler –The Compassionate Ruler is comfortable at being a leader and being in control,but only when a group, or family dynamic is working in harmony. Whenever thereis discord, it causes The Compassionate Ruler to feel a deep burden and stressto “Fix” everyone’s problems. When everyone is happy, they feel in control oftheir own life. The Compassionate Ruler has a strong desire to be the one incharge of everything; unless of course it causes a fight, then they willrelinquish perceived control of the process, but will still watch over it diligently.The Compassionate Ruler will always choose people over the process when makinga decision.
同情心型统治者
同情心型统治者只有在一个团体或者家庭动态关系处在和谐状态时才愿意成为一个领导者或者处在管理位置。无论什么时候只要有不和谐，就会导致同情心型统治者感觉到深深的负担和压力来“修复”每个人的问题。当每一个人都高兴时，他们感觉他们自己的生活在掌控之中。同情心型统治者有强烈愿望想成为一个主管所有事情的人；当然，如果这会引起争斗，那么他们会放弃感知的对事情的控制，但是仍然会勤奋地观察着它。在做决定时，同情心型统治者将总是选择人高于事情。
The Driven Ruler – TheDriven Ruler has a huge hidden fear of being in a position of weakness, andbecause of that fear, they have an expectation that others are out to get oneover on them. The Driven Ruler may also have difficulty connecting to otherpeople, as there is a subconscious belief pattern that people get in the way ofprogress. Progress toward an aim is the Driven Ruler’s number one goal. Ifanyone or anything stands in the way of that goal, they become enemy numberone. The Driven Ruler is a quick decision maker. This is a wonderful attributein times of pressure and stress; however they need to learn to listen to thepoints of view of others in their life. There is a great amount of pride ineverything The Driven Ruler does, that pride can lend itself to stubbornnessand conceit if not kept in balance. The Driven Ruler will always choose processover people when making a decision.
奋发图强型统治者
奋发图强型统治者有一个隐藏的巨大恐惧，恐惧处在弱势地位。由于这个恐惧，他们有一个（潜意识里的）期待（担忧），期待（担忧）其他人都想方设法超过他们。奋发图强型统治者也许很难与其他人建立关系，因为他们有一个潜意识的观念模式就是其他人会妨碍他们的进步。朝着一个目标前进是奋发图强型统治者的头号目标。如果任何人或任何事阻碍了那个目标，那就成了他们的头号敌人。奋发图强型统治者是一个快速做决策的人。在（外在）压力和（内在精神）压力的情形下，这（快速做决策）是一个极好的特质。然而，他们需要学会聆听他们生活中其他人的观点。在奋发图强型统治者做的每一件事中，其中都有大量的骄傲存在，如果不保持平衡的话，这骄傲可能会助长倔强和自负。在做决定时，奋发图强型统治者会将总是事情高于人。
Past Life Pattern Breakdown:
- Need to feelin control
- Pride tiedto being in charge
- Stubbornness/inabilityto listen
- Can viewothers as resources or obligations
前世模式故障
- 需要感觉处于控制之中
- 跟处于（主管）负责地位有关的骄傲
- 倔强/没有聆听的能力
- 可能会把其他人看做是资源或义务
Affirmation – “Irelease all need to be in control. I accept that the world is an uncontrollableplace, and I chose to begin the process of relaxing and learning to go with theflow of life.”
肯定语
“我释放（想要让事情）处在掌控中的所有需要。我接纳世界是一个无法控制的地方，我选择开始放松的过程并学习顺从生命之流（顺其自然）”。
Learn more about how the Ruler pattern is showingup in your life by enrolling in the On-Demand video course, ExploringPast Life Patterns.
了解更多有关统治者模式如何出现在你的生活中，可以参加视频课程探索前世模式（英文）http://yoursoulmission.com/exploring-past-life-patterns/
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译注: 现实生活中的统治者模式
(爱情保卫战20170121期，前半段) 节目中男主人公表现出强迫症，是控制的极端变现；也表现出害怕让别人失望这一“恐惧”。嘉宾涂磊也是典型的统治者模式，除了他自己描述的强迫症，他的主持人工作（掌控现场）也是这一统治者能量的表达
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