如是說999

2020-07-08

Dear friends,

亲爱的朋友们

I am Mary. I am the mother of Jeshua and I represent the mother archetype in your tradition. In that tradition, the energy of the mother has become distorted and debased, and this wound affects both men and women, boys and girls. Motherhood is creative in a receptive way. As a mother, you will receive a child into your womb, and you become a channel for a new soul onto Earth. You become physically attached to the child who comes through you; however, detachment begins at birth where you let the new child be its own unique self when you sever the umbilical cord.

我是玛丽亚。我是约书亚的母亲，我代表你们传统中的母亲原型。在这个传统中，母亲的能量被扭曲和贬低，这个创伤对男性、女性、男孩、女孩都产生了影响。母性是富有创造性地包容。作为一个母亲，你会接收一个孩子进入你的子宫，你会成为一个新的灵魂进入地球的管道。你变得与通过你到来的孩子物理上相连。无论如何，分离在诞生时开始，你让新的孩子成为自己独特的自我，当你切断脐带

The creativity of a mother includes letting go, even though the deepest fusion has taken place when the child is budding in the mother’s womb where it is physically surrounded and nourished. Although this deep fusion has taken place, inevitably, there is also a letting go by allowing the child to complete its way in life in its own unique manner. In this way, motherhood carries two extremes within it: on the one hand, bonding and fusion, and on the other hand, letting go and nurturing the unique qualities of another person.

一个母亲的创造力包含放手，即使最深的融合在孩子在母亲的子宫中发育的时候发生。即使这个深度的融合已经发生，不可避免的是，也有着一个放手，通过让孩子在自己独特的方式中进入生命。在这样的方式中，母性携带着两个极端：一方面，融合与结合，另一方面，放手并滋养另一个人的独特品质

In your tradition, women were usually limited to their role as mother. They could hardly develop in other areas, since there was too little opportunity for that to happen. They could rarely show their passion and inspiration, their male energy. They were pushed one-sidedly into the role of mother and, therefore, they became excessively attached to their children. They identified so strongly with their motherhood that it was almost impossible for them to let go of their child and, thus, to let the child follow its own unique path. In short, this led to a stifling maternal role that smothered the child.

在你们的传统中，女性通常被局限于她们母亲的角色。她们几乎难以在其它领域发展，因为没有多少机会给予她们。她们很少能展示自己的热情和灵感，她们的男性能量。她们被片面地推向母亲的角色，因此，她们变得过分地依附于自己的孩子。她们非常强力地认同她们的母性，几乎不可能去放下她们的孩子以及让孩子跟随自己独特的道路。简而言之，这导致了令孩子窒息的母性角色

Traditionally, the father was absent. He was not allowed to play a nurturing, responsible role within the family. His role was outside the family: he was supposed to work and perform in the world. He needed to be a “man”, which meant he had to suppress his sensitive nature. In this way, the absent father was born, and this again had an impact on the child. The family circumstances did not allow the child to free itself and, with the help of the father, to move away from the tight family structure in order to go its own way.

传统上，父亲是缺席的。他不被允许扮演滋养、尽责的角色。他的角色位于家庭之外：他应该去工作，去闯荡。他需要成为一个“男人”，意味着他必须抑制自己的敏感性。在这样的方式中，缺席的父亲诞生，这又对孩子产生了影响。家庭环境并不允许孩子自由，伴随着父亲的帮助，离开紧绷的家庭机构以便踏上自己的道路

The whole family structure has become distorted in your tradition, with the result that children – such as you and the generations before you: your parents – have inherited an unbalanced picture of the father and mother energies, of the male and female energies. And sooner or later, when in relationships with others, this distortion has its effect.

整个家庭结构在你们的传统中被扭曲，结果就是孩子们 --- 比如你和你前面的一代人：你的父母 --- 继承了一个失衡的父亲和母亲能量、男性和女性能量画面。迟早，在与他人的关系中，这个扭曲会产生影响

If you are very strongly identified with the father energy – especially with the absent father – you will have trouble connecting deeply and emotionally with another; you do not have a good example of how that relationship works. In those who fear bonding and merging, there also lives the fear of the stifling mother energy, the reverse side of the absent father. This combined effect can lead to a repeated pattern where you fear bonding with someone for fear of being swallowed up by that relationship and also of being unable to travel your own path within that relationship; in short, a fear of bonding deeply with another.

如果你非常强力地认同父亲能量 --- 尤其是缺席的父亲 --- 你会难以与另一个人深度情感上连接；你没有一个很好的榜样去运转人际关系。在那些害怕融合与合并的人之内，也活跃着对令人窒息的母亲能量的恐惧，缺席父亲的反面。这个联合效应会导致一个重复模式 --- 你害怕与某个人联合，因为你害怕被那个人际关系吞噬以及无法在那个人际关系中行走自己的道路。简而言之，害怕深度与另一个人联合

If, on the other hand, you strongly identify with the mother energy – if you have a strong bonding with the mother energy of the past – then you throw yourself into a relationship and you are afraid of losing the other person. You are afraid of being abandoned, and so the other becomes the beacon to which you cling. In women and men with separation anxiety there is often a father who was absent, someone they look for their entire lives. They are seeking a haven of safety and independence they are missing in themselves. If they meet someone who seems to represent this beacon, they will easily lose themselves in their feelings for that person. This need creates a pattern of excessive needing to merge with another; it lays claim to the relationship, a destructive claim that will eventually lead to conflict and betrayal.

如果，换句话说，你强力认同母亲能量 --- 如果你与过去的母亲能量有着一个强力的联合 --- 然后你把自己扔到一个人际关系中，你害怕失去另一个人。你害怕被抛弃，所以另一个人变成了你紧抓的灯塔。在有着分离焦虑症的女人和男人中，通常有着一个缺席的父亲，他们寻找一生的那个人。他们在寻找一个内在缺失的安全和独立的港湾。如果他们遭遇看似代表这个灯塔的人，他们会很容易在对那个人的感受中失去自我。这个需求创造了一个过分需要与他人融合的模式；它对人际关系提出要求，一个毁灭性的要求，最终会导向冲突和背叛

So, you can see how you stand in a tradition of distortions relating to both the father and the mother energies. Although these patterns may seem to be something abstract, they play out quite concretely in your personal life.

所以，你可以看到你如何处于一个扭曲的与父亲母亲能量有关的传统中。尽管这些模式可能看似是抽象的，它们在你的生活相当具象地上演

I ask you to now connect inwardly with the primal energy of the father, with the cosmic father energy. That primal energy of the father is an energy of protection, strength, wisdom, and overview. Call up that energy, it is available to you. No matter how your biological father acted in life, that father energy is now available to you. What is required of you is to develop that energy in your earthly life. Become aware of the father energy, which you need to walk your path in life in a calm, effective way. You might see a picture of a father figure before you. Ask for an image or a feeling or an energy with which you can identify; whatever image comes to you will work for you.

我请求你现在去在内在与父亲的原始能量，宇宙父亲能量连接。那个父亲的原始能量是一个保护、力量、智慧和纵览的能量。呼唤那个能量，它可供你获取。无论你的生父表现地如何，那个父亲能量现在就可供你获取。所需的就是在你的尘世生活中发展那个能量。意识到父亲的能量，也就是你需要在平静有效的方式中行走你的道路。你可能会在你面前看到一副父亲的形象图。请求一个画面或感受或能量你可以去识别；任何出现的画面都会为你奏效

The father relates to boundaries. He makes distinctions wherever things should be differentiated. He defends you against excessive fusion, against connecting with others where you may overly lose yourself and give yourself away. The father energy helps you to embrace your individuality. You are, as yourself, a unique person; you are not like anyone else, and that individuality is necessary. It belongs to you and wants to be addressed by you, so that you respect your individuality, and, in that way, make your own decisions and your own choices, choices that reflect you. The father inside you knows this and will guide you in this; he cares for you.

父亲与边界相关；他在事物应该有区别的地方创造区别。他捍卫你抵抗过分的融合，抵抗你可能会过分失去自我的连接。父亲能量帮助你拥抱你的个体性。你，作为你自己，是一个独特的人；你不像任何人，那个个体性是必要的。它属于你，想要被你接手，这样你可以尊重你的个体性，在这样的方式中，做出你自己的决定和选择，反映出你的选择。你之内的父亲知道这一点，会指引你；他关心你

I ask you to now connect with the mother energy. Not so much with the energy of your biological mother, but with the cosmic mother energy, which is present in the universe and with which you are connected because you are part of Creation. You are born from both mother and father energies. The true mother energy is loving and supportive with great gentleness, but it lets you go. It does not want to bind you or restrain you, but lets you be free, while she always accompanies and supports you in everything you do.

我请求你现在去和母亲能量连接。不是与你生母的能量，而是与宇宙母亲的能量，存在于宇宙中，你与之相连，因为你是造物的一部分。你诞生于母亲父亲能量。真正的母亲能量是有爱的、支持性的、非常温柔，但它会放开你。它不想要束缚你或约束你，而是让你自由，同时她总是陪伴、支持你所做的一切

Experience, if you can, this gentle love in your heart. It is as if you are being held by a hand of love that is always open; an open hand from which you are allowed to fly away, but a hand that is always there for you, simply to love you without coercion, without excessive binding. Try, if you can, to feel this mother energy in you, maybe in the form of a picture of a woman or a female guide, or else through a color or a feeling. Allow yourself to receive this energy so you have what you need to feel safe, secure, accepted; to feel nourished by the love of the universe.

如果可以，在你的心中体验这个温柔的爱。就好像你被一双总是敞开的爱之手托住；一双敞开的手，你可以随时飞走，但总是为你存在，不带强迫、没有过分捆绑地爱着你。如果可以，试着感受内在的这个母亲能量，也许在一个女人或女性指导的画面中，或者通过一种颜色或感受。让自己接收这个能量，这样你可以拥有去感到安全、保障、被接纳所需的一切；并感到被宇宙之爱滋养

Feel surrounded by the original father and mother energies and realize that you are in a tradition in which these energies have become distorted and debased. However, you are not only a victim, you are also a creator. You come to bring something new onto Earth, which means, among other things, that you will help to restore the balance between father and mother energies, because you are a soul that includes both energies. In the consciousness process that is now taking place on Earth, it is the intention that you, as a soul, awaken the original energies of the father and the mother, and the force of love, all of which are within you.

感到被原始的父亲母亲能量包裹，意识到你处于一个这些能量被扭曲和贬低的传统中。无论如何，你不仅不是一个受害者，你还是一个创造者。你是来把新事物带给地球的，意味着，除此之外，你会帮助恢复父亲母亲能量的平衡，因为你是一个包含两者能量的灵魂。在正在地球上发生的意识进程中，这是你的意图，作为灵魂，唤醒你之内原始的父亲母亲能量，爱的力量

This process supports you and helps you to fulfill and manifest your potential. It connects your soul with the Earth and, at the same time, it helps others. The more you bring into balance and harmony the old, distorted energies within you, the more light you radiate to others. It is this inner process that is the most essential; it is where real magic takes place. What derives from it outwardly, what your role is in this world, how you live, with whom and how, all that is secondary. The real issue in this life, which is this inner process, is an alchemical process in which your old, distorted energies transform into a new reality.

这个进程会支持你，帮助你实现和体现你的潜能。这会让你的灵魂与地球连接，与此同时，帮助他人。你带给内在旧的、扭曲的能量越多的平衡与和谐，你会把越多的光辐射给他人。这个内在进程是最重要的；这是真正的魔法发生的地方。外在什么东西源于它，你在这个世界的角色是什么，你如何生活，你与谁生活，都是次要的。此生真正的问题，就是这个内在的进程，是一个炼金术过程，将你旧的扭曲的能量转变成一个新的现实

You all desire to take a step forward, which is in the spirit of the times, and which was also your intention as a soul when you started on this journey, this incarnation. Feel how you possess powers to bring about a new consciousness in this world. Feel how you yourself are the seed for this renewal. Yes, you carry old energies in you: fears, scars, and pain from this life, and also from previous lives. But realize there is now so much power present in you that the new can be victorious. In a sense, you are being born anew.

你们都想要前进一步，这也是时代的精神，也是你作为灵魂的意图，当你开始这个旅程、这个化身的时候。感受你如何拥有把新的意识带给这个世界的力量。感受你如何是这个更新的种子。是的，你在内在携带着旧的能量：此生和过去生世的恐惧、伤疤、痛苦。但意识到现在有着大量的力量处于你之内，所以新事物能够胜利。在某种意义上，你在重生

What happens in life is that you are first the receiver of a tradition. You absorb it as a child in your youth and even still later. In that sense, you are a victim of the past, because you are not immediately in a position to process that tradition completely, to see through it, and to bring it to the light of your consciousness. In almost every human life there will be a crisis that confronts you with choices where you are challenged and when life becomes painful. But this can be a constructive process, because your soul guides you through it. Your soul wants you to be creative; it wants to work with you so you are more in balance and harmony, so you connect Heaven with Earth, and in this way you help to give form to a new Earth.

在生活中发生的是你是转变的第一个接收器。你吸收它，作为小时候的你，甚至稍大一点的你。在这个意义上，你是过去的一个受害者，因为你没有立刻到位去完全处理那个转变，去看穿它，去把它带给你的意识之光。在几乎每一个人类生世中，都会有一个危机，会让你面对选择，你会受到挑战，生活会变得很痛苦。但这可以是一个创建的过程，因为你的灵魂会指引你通过它。你的灵魂想要你富有创造性；它想要与你共事，这样你可以更加平衡与和谐，这样你可以让天堂与地球连接，在这样的方式中你会帮助形成新地球

I thank you for your presence here, and on Earth at this time. You are making a difference. I salute you.

我感谢你在这里存在，此刻处于地球上。你在产生影响。我向你致敬

传导：Pamela Kribbe

翻译：Nick Chan