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Do you have a deep need of labels in order to feel secure? We often see this in relationships but it can occur in many other areas of life，as well.Most people use labels as a way of controlling things，as a way of constraining energy and looking for predictability.But the more you identify with a label，the more you might be limiting yourself，instead.

你深度渴望(對人事物貼上)標籤以便感到安全嗎？我們經常在人際關係中看到這一點，但它也能在許多其他的生活領域發生。大多數人使用標籤，作為控制事物的一種方式，作為抑制能量和尋求可預測性的一種方式。但你越多地認同於一個標籤，你會越多地限制自己

You see this often in couples.They quickly cycle through labels，from dating，to being exclusive，to being engaged，to being married.And have you ever noticed that many people，once they make it to the promised land of marriage seem to fall into a rut? They see marriage as the pinnacle，and think there is nowhere else to go from there.

你經常在夫妻中可以看到這一點。他們快速地通過標籤繞圈，從約會，到認定，到訂婚到結婚。你是否注意到了許多人，一旦到達婚姻的應許之地就看似落入俗套？他們視婚姻為頂點，認為從那裡就沒處可去了。

Energy cannot be restrained.If you can see yourselves as energetic beings that are on the planet to grow and evolve，you can see how harmful and uncomfortable it would be to try to constrain it.Ironically，if you reach a point where the growth and expansion has stopped，there will be no energetic support to the activity.So the label that you have sought to secure a relationship，should it start to stall the growth of one or both people in the union，will be the very thing that will make your relationship fall apart.

能量不能被抑制。如果你可以視自己為一個能量的存在去成長和進化，你可以看到去抑制它會是多麼地不適和有害。諷刺的是，如果你到達成長和擴張停止的點，就不會有能量支持活動。所以你用來確保一個人際關係的標籤，會開始停滯結合中一個或兩個人的成長，會讓你的人際關係破裂。

What if marriage was looked at as a new energetic platform to grow and evolve from? What if your labels started to be used，rather than a means to control，but as a starting point to expand from? What possibilities and potentials might you find if you always allowed and encouraged the unfoldment and self expression of all things? How much greater would your life be if you celebrated and embraced the continual evolution your soul seeks?

如果婚姻被視為一個新的能量平台去成長和進化會如何？如果你的標籤開始被使用，而不是作為控制的手段，而是作為擴張的起始點會如何？你會發現什麼樣的可能性和潛能，如果你總是允許和鼓勵一切的展開和自我表達？你的生活會變得多麼宏偉，如果你慶祝和擁抱你靈魂所尋求的持續性進化？

We urge you to start to see how you might be attempting to limit yourselves，others，and your experiences and creations with these old habits of control.Letting go of those outmoded ways might be the very thing you need to do to start to redefine yourself，and your life，in the most marvellous and expansive ways.~Archangel Gabriel

我們敦促你去看到你如何會限制自己，別人，你的體驗，創造，用這些舊的控制習慣。放下那些過時的方式會是你需要做的，在最奇妙和廣泛的方式中，開始重新定義自己，你的生活。

 ~大天使加百利

 原文：https://trinityesoterics.com/daily-message/

 翻译：Nick Chan

 https://www.facebook.com/people/Nick-Chan/100004491903654

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