And to you, good day!
I have a little bit weird question about my family.
A weird question! How exciting!
What is your weird question?
I don't see my father for 14 years.
What location is your father on the planet?
Why have you not seen him for 14 years?
We just stop talking and ...
You stop talking?
I stop talking.
All right. Because?
Because he stops talking too.
You stop talking because he stop talking
or he stop talking and then you stop talking?
Or you both stop talking simultaneously?
You got together and talk about stopping talk.
It's all right. I'm just play with you.
The real question is why, not when.
Yes! Why did you stop talking?
Like whenever I ...
I get him so upset so easy.
No! He chooses to be upset.
You have no power to upset him that he doesn't agree to abide by.
So why does he choose to be upset?
And what is the upset about?
About very small things.
You understand that when people get upset about small things, they are actually upset about something deeper and bigger.
They're just not willing to admit it.
And they're using the small things as distractions to keep them from looking at the reason they are actually upset deep down.
You understand that?
Yes! ... Maybe?
Are you simply saying then that
you find that you are vibrationally incompatible with your father at this moment? And don't necessarily need to experience that negative energy in your life?
And that's why you're not talking?
Is that what you're saying?
Well, so then you made a decision to recognize that you may not necessarily be vibrationally compatible right now.
Now if you are excited to communicate with him regardless of whether he wishes to communicate with you, there are certainly many other ways you can do it.
You can send letters and emails and so on and so forth.
And you can allow yourself to experience the joy of doing that even if he chooses not to respond, yes?
Well, if that's something that you prefer to do, you can do it. if you don't, then that's fine.
But if you have decided that
it is really your preference, your highest excitement not to necessarily communicate with someone who chooses to be negative all the time, then that's your right to do so
And you are then demonstrating to him the consequences of the choices that he is making
Because if he is choosing to be a vibrationally incompatible with you, then communication doesn't occur between you
And that's the consequences of the choice that he's making.
You have to show people what the consequences are of the choices that they make relative to you
So that you can be authentic with them, so they will know who they are actually in a relationship with.
Because if you're just pretending to be who you are not, then they're not in a relationship with you anyway
So what difference does it make whether it is literal or metaphorical?
Because if you're not you, they're not in a relationship with you.
So if you are authentically you, at least they are in some form of relationship with the real you.
Even if they choose not to really act on it so much.
At least you're being authentic and giving them an opportunity if they wish to form a stronger relationship with you to choose to do so.
But it doesn't mean they have to
You have to be willing to allow him to choose what he wishes to choose just as you want him to allow you to choose what you prefer to choose, yes?
Is this all right? Do you understand?
Yes, I understand it.
Is this helping?
Very! Thank you so much!