Dear Onesif someone has hurt you in the past it is an indicator that they were not at a level of soul growth to choose differently.They simply did not know better.

 

親愛的,如果有人在過去傷害了你,這是一個指示,他們沒有處於靈魂成長的層面來選擇。簡單來說他們並不曉得有更好的做法。

 

Now you can say that they should have known better but the reality is if they were hurtful in that moment they did not.They did not know better because the hurt happened.Recognizing that you were hurt because someone did not know better allows you to heal.It makes the affront less personal and more an expression of who they were in that moment of time.

 

現在你可以說他們應該更明白,但事實上,如果他們是傷人的,表示在那個時刻他們並不知道更好的辦法,他們不曉得更好的做法以至於傷害發生了,允許自己療癒,(理解那些傷害的造成是)因為有人並不知道更好的做法。這會讓冒犯較少地針對自己,更多像是他們在那刻時刻所是的表達

 

Expecting that if you tell them how they were wrong they will change is usually met with disappointment because change true change comes from within.It comes from introspection and a desire to do better.It is an internal process.

 

如果你期待告訴他們錯了,他們就會改變,經常會導致沮喪,因為改變,真正的改變,是來自內在。來自內省,渴望做得更好。這是一個內在的進程

 

If someone truly understands how they have hurt you they will let you know.They will apologize and make amends of their own accord.If you do not see that behaviour originating from them it is likely that they still do not know better and will hurt you again.

 

如果一個人真正明白他們是如何傷害了你,他們會讓你知道。他們會道歉並且做出符合自己能力的補償。如果你看不到這個行為,那可能是他們依舊不知道有更好的選擇,而因此再次傷害你。

 

There have been times that you did not know better either.That does not make you bad or awful but simply one operating at a level of growth that is not indicative of who you are today.You have grown from there and that is a wonderful thing.

 

有時候你也不知道更好的。這並不會讓你變成壞人或可怕的人,而是在並不表明你之所是的成長層面運作。你從那成長,這是奇妙的

 

We urge you to let go of the ties that hold you to events that were unwanted.Let your true self lead the way.Forgive those who have not found their own divine nature yet.Surround yourselves with those who can see you in your truth and honour you for who you really are.Shine brightly and beautifully as you are today and know that will draw to you those who can see that light and that truth.~Archangel Gabriel

 

我們敦促你放下將你捆綁於並不想要的事件的連接。讓你真正的自我引領道路。寬恕那些還未找到自己神聖本質的人。讓自己周圍充滿可以看到身處真理中的你的人,榮耀你之所是的人。明亮,美麗地閃耀,知曉這會吸引給你那些看到光和真理的人。

~
大天使加百利

 

 

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