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Healthy boundaries facilitate empowerment rather than rescuing.One supports authentic power，the other perpetuates victim consciousness.It is perfectly appropriate and beautiful to help one another，in fact，we love you for your tender hearts and caring nature! We just urge you to make sure it is for the greatest good of all involved.

健康的邊界是促進授權而不是拯救。授權是支持真正的力量，而拯救是強化受害者意識。幫助他人是完全恰當的和美麗的，事實上，我們愛你溫柔的心和關懷的本質！我們敦促你確保這是為了一切的最高良善

A good rule of thumb is to make sure that you never become more invested in another"s wellness than they are in their own，and to never become more invested in another"s wellness than you are in your own.Support and encouragement uplift，while rescuing or doing for others，what they can very well do for themselves，reinforces the illusion of their powerlessness.

一個好的方法就是確保永遠不要寄希望於他人的給予，除了他人主動施予自己的福祉以外，永遠不要期待他人的福祉，你對自己的支持和鼓勵會提升自己，而拯救或替他人做他們可以為自己做的，則會加強他們無力的幻象

Isn't it time to not only shine，but to also encourage others to shine in their divine capability，as well? Then you will be in a beautiful spiral of upliftment，a dance of support and empowerment，that allows everyone involved to thrive.~Archangel Gabriel

這不僅是閃耀，還是鼓勵他人在他們神聖的能力中閃耀的時刻。隨後你會處於美麗的提升螺旋，一個支持和授權的舞蹈，會讓每個涉及的人繁榮。

 ~大天使加百利