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 原创 萨古鲁sadhguru® ishayoga

2020-05-15

If that becomes a social norm, then how doyou decide somebody has... whatever, multiple wives?And how do you decidesomebody has no wife?You're opening up your memory body...This will cause awhole lot of turmoil within the system.

如果那成为了一个社会规范，那么你如何决定谁有⋯⋯多个妻子？你又如何决定某人没妻子呢？你在打开你的记忆身，这会在系统里面造成很多的错乱。

Questioner: Sadhguru, my next question foryou is- why can't one husband be with multiple women,and one woman or a wifecan't be with multiple husband in today's society among consenting adults?Andwhat impact do these people have when they involve in such relationships?

提问者：萨古鲁，我的下一个问题是在现今社会有共识的成年人之间，为何一夫不能有多妻，一妻不能有多夫呢？以及当这些人卷入这样的关系时，对他们有什么影响？

Sadhguru: See... Body is the front end forevery other creature on this planet.The only reason this creature is dominatingthis planet is not because we have the best body!You are not comparable to anelephant, or a tiger, or anything for that matter.You're not even as good as abuffalo. (Laughter) Yes. In terms of strength and physical prowess, you arenowhere comparable.This is dominant because of its intelligence, this isdominant because of its consciousness.But right now, we are creating a worldwhere your biology is the front end of your life.

萨古鲁：看…身体是地球上所有其他生物的前端，这个生物（人类）在这个星球上占优的唯一原因，不是因为我们有最好的身体！论身体你比不上一头大象或者老虎等的动物，你甚至比不上一头水牛。是的，就力量和身体的能力以言，你是完全比不上。人类是因为它的智慧而占优，因为它的意识而占优，但现在，我们正在创造一个以生理为主导的世界。

These things were done at a certain timewhen the social situations were such.Or men were married to many more...- Imean more than one woman.This was mainly because men died more often thanwomen.Today, both man and woman are outside both may get killed, that'sdifferent.But at that time, largely women stayed home because she wascontinuously pregnant.From the age to fourteen to forty-five, fifty, she isalmost all the time- either she is pregnant or she has a young child.This ishow life used to be.

这些事都曾在某个时期发生，当时的社会状况是这样的，一个男人娶多过一个女人，这主要是因为男性通常比女性早逝。今时今日男女都到外面去，两者都可以死去，是另一回事了，但在那个时候大部分妇女待在家中。因为她一直在怀孕，由十四到四五十岁，她几乎任何时候。于是在怀孕的话，就是有个幼儿在身边，那时候的生活是这样的。

So because of that, she stayed home and shetook care of the property and the agriculture and stuff.Man went out to dobusiness, or for war, or something else, he went out.So men always died moreoften.So generally in most societies in the past, the number of men was muchless than the number of women.Always.This has been the state all across theworld.So naturally when so many women were there, they needed care and theyneeded support in the society.And those days, a woman could not exist byherself-unless she is protected by a male partner-it would be very difficultfor her to exist by herself,because she would be exploited in so many differentways.So always they attach themselves.So naturally a man ended up having two,three women because the population ratio was like that.But now largely it'sleveled out.

因此，她留在家里负责打理家庭和耕作等等，而男人就外出从商或者打仗之类的，他会到外面去。所以男人总是较早逝，所以在以前普遍的社会男性的数量比女性少得多，总是如此。世界各地的状况都是这样子，所以很自然地当时这么多女人的时候，她们需要别人照顾，需要社会的支持，在那些日子，女性不能独自存活，除非她有男性伴侣的保护，对她来说，独自存活是非常困难。因为她会被多种方式剥削，所以她们通常会依附别人，因此男性自然地会有两三个妻子，因为人口比例是这样子，但现在大致上已经同等了。

If that becomes a social norm, then how doyou decide somebody has... whatever, multiple wives?And how do you decide somebodyhas no wife?This will become a social... you know, collision it will become!Itwill become lot of problems in the society, because we may act civilized...-I'm very particular, I'm very clear about saying- we act civilized.But when weare denied basic things that we need,all our civilization evaporates and wewill behave like animals.Yes or no?

如果那成为了一个社会规范，那么你如何决定谁有⋯⋯多个妻子？你又如何决定某人没妻子呢？这会成为社会冲突，你知道吗！这会在社会造成多个问题。因为或许我们装作文明，我是非常具体清晰地说的，我们装作文明，但是当我们被剥夺了我们所需要的基本东西时，我们的文明便会灰飞烟灭，行为变得如动物一样，是不是呢？

Audience: Yes!

观众：是的！

Sadhguru: So, when fundamentals are denied,people will go (Gesture) clashing.So that's not going to work in today's world.Andabove all, the woman's condition will become very bad.If you're asking thisquestion in a more existential way...Well...See...This is a certain framework,not just of bone and muscle and flesh,there is a certain energy framework.Onlybecause of that it takes on a certain form.

萨古鲁：当基本的东西被剥夺了，人们变会有冲突。所以这在现今社会是不会奏效的。最重要的是，女人的情况会变得很糟糕，如果你是在存在层面上问这个问题。那么⋯⋯看⋯⋯这是一种架构，不只是骨头，肌肉和血肉，这里有某种能量架构，仅仅是因为它这才会以某种形态呈现。

See, if you eat mangoes everyday and let'ssay a cow eats mangoes everyday,at some point will you or the cow get confusedwhether you are a cow or a human being?Or will the cow get confused?Such athing never happens because there is clear-cut inner framework, to which fleshand blood is added.But there is a framework, an evolutionary memory frameworkis there, it never gets broken isn't it?So in this framework, how strong youkeep this framework,how much integrity is there to this energy framework willdetermine many things about your life,many aspects of your life. Especially ifyou want to raise this life to another level of function, it's very importantyou maintain this integrity.This is why, irrespective of which religion, whichspiritual process,if people want to raise them till to a certain point,firstthing they will talk about is becoming Monks, or Brahmacharis, or Sanyasis,becausethe idea is to create such a level of integrity that this is a whole life byitself,that it doesn't lean on anything else for support.Either for physicalwell-being or emotional well-being or psychological companionship,it doesn'tlean on anything, it stands by itself because you want to take it somewhereelse.If you want normal function, these things are not necessary.Now you wantto become a rocket which breaks through a certain dimension of space.Now youneed to be in a different level of force and integrity, otherwise it'll crackup.So you don't want to open your body to anything,and especially opening tomultiple partners has its own negativity in that context.How much pain and...you look at Draupadi's life.How much volatility, how much pain, how muchsuffering she went through in her life.And how much pain and suffering shecaused because of her anger and jealousy and whatever else.So, these thingshappen for variety of reasons you can't blame everything on that one aspect.Butthat aspect also has a say in these aspects because you're opening up yourmemory body,your energetic body, which is essentially ruled by memory, tovariety of memories.This will cause a whole lot of turmoil within the systemwhich could affect that life and many other lives.So Draupadi's life is in away a sample for that.It's not an absolute.This is not an absolute but this hasan influence.

看，如果你每天都会吃芒果，而一头牛也每天吃芒果。到某个时候，你或者是牛，会对谁是人谁是牛感到疑惑吗？或者那头牛会感到疑惑吗？这样的事情从不发生，因为内在有个明确的架构，在其之上来生成血肉，这里有一个架构，一个进化上的记忆架构，从来都不会被破坏，不是吗？所以在这架构之内，你有多牢固地去维持它，这个能量架构有多完整一致。会确定你生命的很多事情，你生命中很多面向。特别是如果你想将这个生命提升至另一运作层面，维持它的完整性是非常重要。这就是为何不管是哪种宗教、哪种灵性进程，如果人们想要提升至某一个点，他们首先会谈的就是成为僧侣。Bramacharis，或者 Sanyasis （出家人的种类）。因为我们的想法是创造这样一个以生命自身为完整的水平，它不用依靠任何其他东西作为支持，不论是身或情感的幸福，还是心理上的陪伴，它不用依靠任何东西而能自立。因为你想到别的运作层面，如果你想在正常的运作层面，这些东西就没有必要，但现在你想成为火箭并打破某个维度的空间，那么你便需要不一样的力量水平和完整性，否则它便会垮掉。因此你不想开放你的身体给任何东西，尤其是开放给多个伴侣有其自身的负面影响。你看看 Draupadi 的人生，她的一生经历了多少波动、起伏、痛苦，以及她的愤怒和嫉妒之类，造成了多么的苦楚，这些事情是由于多种原因而发生。你不能将一切都归咎于这单一方面，但那方面也有其影响，因为你在打开你的记忆身，能量体，你的能量体本质上是由记忆支配的，这会在系统里造成许多的混乱，并会影响自身生命和别人的生命，所以 Draupadi 的一生，在某种形式是一个借镜。这不是絶对的，这不是绝对的，但它会有影响。

Love&Grace

爱与恩典

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