So I am still transforming limiting beliefs
And I would like your help with this one. And I think maybe it would serve myself and others if I went to it.
So there's a girl that at work that I like very much, came into my life recently.
I think the audience knows where is going
They think they know.
And so it all happens in the same night where I have this the state of being in love
And I'm aware I'm choosing this, choosing this in love state
And then very slightly, it sort of switch.
It still feel good, but it feel like I want to... Like I want to last all night, like I don't want her to go
So you are immediately imposing a condition on it and lowering the frequency of the unconditional love.
It seems like it.
Because before when my void was very big, it would be very obvious when this would happen
But since I transform so much, the void seems a lot smaller
and it's get sneaky on me.
But you're testing yourself to understand how to stay in the state that you really prefer
Because it becomes a matter of precision and discernment
So that you can realize that there doesn't necessarily take much to go from one state to another
So that by testing yourself and going out of the state, even just a little bit and feeling the difference
It makes it easier for you to then remember what that state was like and bring yourself back into it if you are willing to go there
I seem to have a challenge to bring myself back.
Well, then that's what you need to go to this process for to find out what beliefs are challenging you to go back into the state you prefer to be in
So that you don't impose any insistence, conditions and expectations on what you think being in love is supposed to look like
Because many people on your planet have an idea of what being in love is supposed to look like.
And most of them are not right about that
Being in love means unconditional acceptance of what is, not imposing an assumption or an expectation or insistence on what you think it's supposed to be
So I asked myself this question: Why do I choose to switch it?
Yes! And what the answer you get?
The answer is that, I don't think I believe that I have everything I need now in the moment.
So if the physical changes.
Let's say, she goes away, then my mind would chase that
Instead of saying this is a new moment and I have everything I need to choose that state in that moment.
Well, you obviously understand what is necessary,
But the question is Why aren't you allowing yourself to go there?
I know you won't let me say ” I don't know”!
You can say it, I just don't believe you.
I don't believe me either.
Good! That's a good start.
But I was thinking maybe there's a perspective that I haven't thought of that you could share.
Oh, yes! Absolutely.
Now the idea again being that there is an assumption that as you say you can't hold that state.
It comes from, as you say, feeling like, believing that you may not love yourself enough.
Do you understand?
Is that a question?
Except for the do you understand part. That was a question!
When you love yourself unconditionally, you will know every moment you have exactly what you need for that moment
And what is not there, isn't needed
But it takes loving yourself unconditionally first to know that.
I've been working on is in many ways and this is another opportunity to look at that.
Yes, it is.
Now, is there a reason that you're creating why you are not worthy of loving yourself unconditionally?
I was taught growing up that if if people didn't like me, or the circumstances appeared like that
That there was something wrong with me.
Well, I'm going to just put this in your own colloquial terms
But buying into that belief is what's wrong with you
Do you understand?
And when you don't buy into that belief, then there's nothing wrong with you.
So only believing that there's something wrong with you make something wrong with you.
That makes sense.
此话 有 理！
I know that's why I said that.
I see that's coming.
Because what you believe is true is what becomes your reality reflection
It can't be any other way.
So believing that there's something wrong with you allows you to experience something being wrong with you. 、
That's the paradox.
The belief that there something wrong creates the experience of there being something wrong
But nothing else does.
Only the belief that there is something wrong with you creates the experience that there's something wrong with you.
Nothing else actually create that experience.
Which means that there is nothing wrong with you.
You will improve.
You will change.
You will grow.
You gain more insight into yourself
You'll be more precise.
You'll guide yourself more precisely with more discernment.
But just because you may not be doing that now doesn't mean something's wrong with you
Because you're not measuring yourself against who you will become.
Because you have no business doing that
Because you don't know who that is yet
But you know who you are now and what you prefer to be now.
So be who you prefer to be now
That's the only thing you need to be
You have no business measuring yourself against who you've been, or who you might become.
Those are different people
Do you understand?
You can only be you.
So be the you you prefer to be.
And don't find yourself coming up short by measuring yourself against who you think you're supposed to be.
Thank you for that.
Do that help you?
Yes, it does!