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2018-04-29 奥修每日分享

要原谅自己的父母，是最困难的事情之一，因为他们生下了你——你如何能原谅他们呢？

除非你开始爱自己，如果你来到一个状态——你为自己的存在而激动、兴奋，否则你怎么能够感谢你的父母呢？那是不可能的。

你会非常愤怒——他们生下了你，而他们并没有事先询问你。他们已经创造了一个痛苦的人。只因为他们生下了你，你就应该受苦吗？你不是这其中的一份子。为何你要被拽进这个世界呢？所以，你感到愤怒。

除非你来到这个点——你能爱你自己，你能对自己感到狂喜，你的感激没有边界，那么突然地，你开始对你的父母升起无限的爱。

他们是一扇门，经由他们你进入存在。没有他们，这份狂喜就是不可能的——他们让它成为可能。

如果你能庆祝你的存在——这就是我工作的全部意图，帮助你庆祝你的存在——那么突然地你会感激你的父母，感激他们的慈悲，感激他们的爱。你不仅感激，你也原谅他们。

FORGIVING YOUR PARENTS

To forgive one's parents is one of the most difficult things, because they have given birth to you - how can youforgive them?

Unless you start loving yourself,unless you come to a state in which you are thrilled by your being-how can you thank your parents? It is impossible.

You will be angry-they have given birth to you, and they didn't even ask you first. They have created this horrible person. Why should you suffer because they decided to give birth to a child? You were not a party to it. Why have you been dragged into the world? Hence the rage.

If you come to a point where you can love yourself, where you feel really ecstatic that you are, where your gratefulness knows no limitation, then suddenly you, feel great love arising for your parents.

They have been the doors for you to enter into existence. Without them this ecstasy would not have been possible-they have made it possible.

If you can celebrate your being-and that is the whole purpose of my work, to help you to celebrate your being-then suddenly you can feel gratitude for your parents, for their compassion, their love. You can not only feel grateful, you also forgive them.