2019-09-05

 

 

As you continue to evolve, a theme that is coming up is moving beyond co-dependency into healthy connection.You may know that your interactions with those closest to you hold patterns that are no longer desired but don’t quite know how to shift them. This can feel daunting because many of these patterns have been well entrenched since childhood. Along with this, unconditional love can sometimes be misunderstood to mean allowing any kind of behaviour to continue in order to be loving.

 

随着你继续进化,一个主题会出现,那就是超越相互依赖进入健康的连接。你可能明白你与亲密之人的交互有着你不再渴望的模式但你不知道如何转变它们。这会令人怯步,因为这些模式从孩童时期就根深蒂固。并且,无条件之爱有时候会被误解为允许任何种类的行为继续,为了变得有爱

 

Dear Ones, we have some simple rules of thumb to help you navigate the waters of creating healthier connections with appropriate boundaries. The first is, never become more invested in another person’s wellness than they are in their own. The second is, never become more invested in another person’s wellness than you are in your own.

 

亲爱的一们,我们有一些简单的大拇指规则来帮助你去伴随着恰当的边界创造更加健康的连接。首先,永远不要比当事人对他的福祉付出的还要多。其次,永远不要对他人的福祉付出的比对你自己的福祉付出的还要多

 

You are seeking connection points that honour and empower everyone involved. There is not one solid unmovable line in the sand. There may be times where you need to step forward if someone is losing their balance to help them right themselves. The idea is that you always offer your support with an eye towards what will empower them to be able to stand on their own again.

 

你在寻求荣耀和授权每个涉及之人的连接点。在沙滩中没有一条固定不变的线。有时候你可能需要向前一步,如果有人失去他们的平衡,去帮助他们恢复。我们的想法是你总是伴随着“注视于会授权他们去靠自己再次站起来的东西”来提供你的支持。

 

Co-dependency is connected to the old conditional love model.You fear if you disappoint another they will not love you anymore. When you change the unhealthy dance you have with another they may initially resist the change and be upset. But a beautiful thing happens if you stick to your new healthier model. They will still love you despite their initial displeasure, which allows both you and them to move into the experience of unconditional love.

 

相互依赖与旧的有条件爱模型相连。你害怕如果你令他人失望,他们不会再爱你。当你改变与他人的不健康舞蹈,他们可能一开始会抵制改变并生气。但如果你坚持你新的更加健康的模型,一件美好的事情会发生。他们依旧会爱你,尽管他们一开始很不满,这会让你和他人都进入无条件之爱的体验

 

Your love and connection is meant to be empowering, encouraging, and supportive. It does not mean abandoning yourself or assuming responsibility for someone else’s growth. There may be times you need to lovingly step back in order for someone to discover their own divine capability. Your wisdom will always know how to proceed if you look at it through the lens of what is empowering for everyone involved. ~Archangel Gabriel through Shelley Young

 

你的爱和连接本应该是授权、鼓励和支持。这并不意味着放弃自己或为别人的成长负责。有时候你会需要亲切地后退一步以便让别人发现自己神圣的能力。你的智慧总是知道如何进行下去,如果你通过什么授权每个涉及之人的透镜去看。~大天使加百利

 

原文:https://trinityesoterics.com/2019/09/04/daily-message-wednesday-september-4-2019/

翻译:Nick Chan

 

 

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