如是說999

2017-11-20

Have you noticed how your love relationships enjoy such a glorious time of wonder and connection in the beginning, and over time start to feel less and less magical? Have you wondered why that happens?

你是否有注意到你的爱情关系如何享受辉煌的神奇和连接时刻，在一开始，随着时间的推移开始感到越来越少的魔力？你是否好奇为什么这会发生？

The reason for that is because you enter the relationship from a space of openness and appreciation but don’t consciously keep up that positive focus, and slowly start to shift from gratitude, unconditional love, and acceptance for each other into the lack of appreciation for them that you call taking for granted.

这是因为你从开放和欣赏的空间进入关系但并不有意识地保持积极的专注，慢慢地开始从感恩，无条件之爱，接纳转变到欣赏的缺乏，你称为理所当然

Once you fall into taking each other for granted and worse, negative focus, you start to judge the other, which creates separation. From the space of judgment and separation, it is easy to feel resentful and fall into conditional love, which further erodes the love and connection you once had. Further, because you are so focused on the failings of the other, you have stepped out of being responsible for self, and the knowing that the only thing that you do have control over is yourself.

一旦你落入把彼此认为是理所当然的，更糟糕的，负面的专注，你开始评判另一个人，创造了分离。从评判和分离的空间，很容易感到不满，跌入有条件的爱，进而侵蚀你曾经持有的爱和连接。此外，因为你是如此专注于另一个人的缺点，你走出了自我负责以及对唯一你所掌控的是自己这个知晓

Dear Ones, this is a very common thing, and something you are ready to evolve beyond. If your relationship has gone down this road, you can start to turn it around. Consciously look for the traits you truly love about your partner and voice your appreciation for them. Appreciation always shifts the energy into acceptance. Acceptance is the core of unconditional love.

亲爱的一们，这是很常见的，这是你已经进化超越的。如果你的关系已经踏上了这条路，你可以开始扭转局面。有意识地寻找你对自己伴侣真正喜欢的特性，对他们诉说欣赏。欣赏总是会把能量转变成接纳。接纳是无条件之爱的核心

When you show love and appreciation for another, they automatically start to see themselves through your eyes. You become a safe person for them to connect with again. They start to feel better about themselves, and start to appreciate you and the change you are supporting.

当你展现对另一个人的爱和欣赏，他们自然地开始通过你的眼睛看待自己。你成为对他们来说一个安全的人，可以再次连接。他们开始对自己感觉更好，开始欣赏你和你所支持的改变

Appreciation and acknowledgment heals resentment. Connection becomes possible again because you aren’t steeped in energy that can only reject and separate. All of a sudden both partners start showing up as their best versions of themselves again.

欣赏和认可疗愈不满。连接再次成为可能，因为你没有步入只会拒绝和分离的能量。突然间，两个人开始展现出他们最好的版本，再一次地

We understand it can be hard to shift yourself out of old established patterns, but it is absolutely possible with a little conscious awareness and a willingness to shift the energy of how you show up for your relationship. As you continue on your enlightenment journey, you will naturally want to apply higher vibrating elements to your relationships, which is what supports the wonder and connection you’ve been missing.

我们明白转变出旧的模式会是艰难的，但伴随着一点意识和意愿是绝对可能的去转变你如何呈现在关系中的能量。随着你继续启蒙之旅，你会自然想要把更高振动的元素应用到关系中，这会支持你所思念的神奇和连接

It is a skill you all have, which is why the beginning of your union was so magical in the first place. You can choose to infuse your partnership with those same traits whenever you want, to bring things back into their full potential. It is never too late to step back into being the love you wish to experience. ~Archangel Gabriel through Shelley Young

这是你们都拥有的技能，所以一开始你们的联合是如此地神奇。你可以在任何时刻把那些特性注入你的关系中，把事物带回它们完全的潜能。返回你希望体验的爱从不会太晚。~大天使加百利

翻译：Nick Chan