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2017-12-12 OSHO 奥修每日分享

[A sannyasin asked about her relationship problems. Osho said she should not do anything but allow things to settle by themselves. If she made a decision to leave her boyfriend or to stay with him, the part in her that was resistant would create trouble.]

【一个门徒问她的关系问题。奥修说她什么也不应该做，而是允许事情自己解决。如果她决定跟男友分手或在一起，她内在那个抗拒的部分会制造麻烦。】

OSHO 奥修 :

… so it is always good to let things settle on their own accord. Whatsoever we do creates more trouble than it solves. And there is no hurry. Why bother that it is not going anywhere? What is going anywhere? Who is going anywhere? Nobody has ever heard of any relationship going anywhere. Nothing goes anywhere. Everything is here.

让事情自己解决始终是好的。无论我们做什么，都比它自己解决掉造成更多的麻烦。不用急。为何要在意它停滞不前？什么要去哪里 / 有所进展？谁要去哪里 / 有所进展？没有人听说过关系要去往何方。没有什么要去哪里。一切都在这里 / 此地。

When you feel good, be together. When you don't feel good it is better to be frank. And there is no need to feel guilty that you are using him, because you can tell him that if he does not feel like being with you, perfectly good. When you both agree to be together and both agree to move into some space, good. When even one is not willing, then don't force it. Then nobody is using anybody. The relationship remains free. You come close, you go away, but nothing is being forced.

当你感觉好的时候，就在一起。当你感觉不好的时候，最好坦言。没有必要为利用他而内疚，因为你能告诉他，如果他不喜欢跟你在一起，完全没问题。当你们都同意在一起，都同意进入某个空间，很好。即便有一方不愿意，也不要强迫。这样就没有谁利用谁。关系依然是自由的。你走近，你离开，但没有什么是被强迫的。

[Osho said if one started trying to settle things, the venture was doomed from the start, because the mind is a great planner but it knows nothing of the future. Rather, Osho said, it was better to live moment by moment.... ]

【奥修说如果一个人开始试图解决事情，冒险从一开始就注定失败了，因为头脑是一个了不起的计划者，但它对未来一无所知。相反，奥修说，最好一个片刻接着一个片刻的活着。】

When loving, then be really loving. When non-loving, forget all about it. One day or other the world is going to accept this fact - that lovers should not live together. They should live separately, and whenever they want to be together, they can be together. Whenever they don't want to be together, there is no need for them to be.

当你在爱的时候，就真的在爱。当你没有在爱的时候，就彻底忘掉它。总有一天世人会接受这个事实——爱人们不应该生活在一起。他们应该分居，每当他们想在一起了，他们就能在一起。每当他们不想在一起了，就没有必要在一起。

Marriage and divorce should both disappear. They are both together; divorce exists because of marriage. Once marriage disappears, divorce will also disappear. People should be free to be together or not and each moment should decide its own truth. Why should we decide ahead? why decide for tomorrow? Tomorrow will come and decide. Let tomorrow have its own say and then you will always be happy and you will never be fighting against the current. You will always be relaxed, moving with the current, floating with it.

婚姻和离婚都应该消失。它们是一起的，离婚之所以存在是因为婚姻。一旦婚姻消失了，离婚也会消失。人们在不在一起应该是自由的，每一刻都应该决定它本身的真相。为什么我们要提早决定？为什么要为明天做决定？明天会到来并决定。让明天可以自己发言，那么你始终会开心，你永远不会跟当下对抗。你会始终放松，顺应当下，跟当下一起流动。

And existence is not going anywhere; that you should remember. It is just being here. Nothing is going anywhere. All coming and going, all arrival and departure is just a dream world. All that is, is simply here. Nothing is going anywhere. It has never gone anywhere and it will never go anywhere.

存在哪里也不去，你应该记住这一点。它就只是在这里。没有什么要去哪里。一切的来来去去，所有的抵达和离开皆是虚幻。一切如是的，皆在这里。没有什么要去哪里。它从未去往哪里，它也永远不会去往哪里。

So simply relax, and don't feel guilty. Enjoy…

所以就只是放松，不要内疚。享受……

译者：Aashna。仅对个人译文声明原创。