透過Jennifer Hoffman傳訊
釋放受害模式
說起受害故事，每一個人都一定會有深刻的記憶，是有關於自己無力無助，甚至無法掌握的遭遇。這些受害故事的情節是如此地栩栩如生，不斷地提醒著，雖然我們自己努力過，但在一瞬間，我們的生命就是被改變了，被他人或事物擊倒。不論這些受害故事當初是如何發生的，這些經驗總是提醒著我們要遠離禍災。但這並不是這些受害經驗最初被設計的意圖。我們的一生，總是經歷著不同的受害情境，不論我們是獨立或是脆弱的孩童，或是成年後，我們面對艱困挑戰努力去達成自己的夢想時，我們都面臨了一個重要抉擇：去當個受害者；或是突破原有的限制成為一個勝利者，找回自己的力量。受害模式是我們人類必須和可以克服的，釋放這模式也是人類個體和集體的部份旅程。
我們最早的受害故事可能源自於兒時被其它人欺負的記憶；也有可能是在情緒上或是心理上，感受不到父母的陪伴；或是自己在某方面的需求並未被滿足。也有可能是因為疾病、虐待、艱困的家庭生活或父母手足的逝世所帶來的創傷，而造成了我們生命中的受害模式。如果沒有了解這點，這些模式就可能成為我們的生命模組，決定我們日後生命路徑中將會發生的課題。因為我們所散發出的能量波頻，將吸引相關的人事物來到我們的生命中，而每一個細節都將再度強化我們的生命模組。當我們總是埋怨週遭的人們不尊重、不珍惜我們，而且在重要時刻還無所不用地阻擾我們，或是我們總是在感嘆自己坎坷的命運，責怪幸運之神忘了眷顧自己時，不妨停下步伐檢視自己的生命模組，就不難找到答案了。當我們沉浸在自己的受害故事中時，其他人也都有著自己的受害故事。即使是最有成就的人也都對自己可能成為受害者有著深沉的恐懼，他們擔心那些過去被人遺忘的事件可能再被提起、擔心自己會被新人超越取代、或是自己的弱點曝露在對手面前。
其實我們也可以不將自己視為受害者，那我們的思惟、信念和行動就會開始述說另一個故事。一個受害者擁有許多的難題、失意、失望和遺憾。他們總是認為別人比自己幸運、有天賦、受祝福，或是更有人緣。受害者希望藉著述說自己悲慘的故事，找到別人的同情；也希望知道自己不是唯一不快樂的人。他們似乎是在自己家庭中接受過＂受害者訓練＂，這讓他們認為受害是理所當然的，這也就讓他們成為自己受害故事中的受害主角。然後，就吸引了受害者和加害者，尤其是個性專横、總是在控制、操弄和指使他人的人們出現。
當我們運作受害模式時，就對他人發出了無聲的訊息：自己是無能的，而對方是比我們有能力的人。當我們需要協助時，就會發現回應我們請求的人，總是要我們將自己的力量作為回報，這使得我們更加深陷受害模式中。這時的救星和貴人反而成為能掌控我們的人，接著他們變成專橫的暴君，讓我們受害者的身份又多加一重。我們該如何釋放受害模式呢？光行者可以作些什麼呢？首先，我們必須了解受害模式的成因，並且作出選擇。在受害循環中的每一個念頭都是由自己作決定的。
我們的靈性旅程就宛若美國原住民的靈魂回溯儀式，薩滿巫師一路帶著追尋者去找回遺失在過去累世創傷中的靈魂片段。在每一生中，我們有許多機會去療癒埋藏在我們靈魂記憶和感性DNA中的古代創傷，並讓我們回到靈性和感性的合一中。各種讓我們感覺受害的情境出現在我們面前，不同的受害者訓練也經由那些製造受害機會的人士提供給我們。當我們能開始再度連結自己的力量和重新啟動自己的力量時，我們就找回了發現自己靈性中心的能力，屬於我們自己回到合一的靈性旅程於此展開。這也是人類旅程初始至今的真正故事起源，只待我們將自己的波頻轉換到全新的靈性震動。身為人類的一份子，我們有機會走出受害模式，並記起與神聖源頭的連結、自己的神聖性和力量。我們的受害故事來自於發生在今生和累世的事件，在其中，我們被虐待、被利用、被辜負。每一個受害故事都是一個因果的的課題，一次靈魂的接觸，和一次邁向寬恕、蛻變和完結篇的旅程起點。
我們可以選擇維持自己受害者的身份，繼續在無力感中受苦，然後帶著受傷的靈魂去到下一世；也可以成為勝利者，成為靈性大師了解生命旅程的更大視野，也可以選擇超越痛苦療癒自己、擺脫過去活在當下、讓豐盛和實踐的生命取代匱乏和痛苦。我們這些存在（靈體）都被賦予去認知自己的受害狀態和去作出不同抉擇的機會，去創造一個沒有受害者的新世界模式，也將受害模式從此自地球的能量中消除。
Releasing the Victim Paradigm
Everyone has a victim story, a memory of a situation when they felt powerless, out of control or helpless. The details of the victim story are very real and serve as a reminder that despite our best efforts, we can be overcome by people or events and our life can change in an instant. No matter when the victim story first began, every detail is etched in our mind as a reminder that we are one step away from disaster. But this is not the intention of our victim experiences. All of us go through different aspects of being a victim in our life, beginning with childhood when we are vulnerable and dependent, to adulthood where we try to achieve our dreams in the face of what can appear to be insurmountable challenges. We are faced with the choice of being a victim or rising above our perceived limitations to becoming a victor and stepping into our power. The victim paradigm is one that all of humanity must—and can—overcome and releasing it is part of our individual and collective spiritual journey.
Our victim story can begin in childhood when we remember incidents of being bullied by others, our parents were emotionally or physically unavailable or our needs were not met in some way. Or maybe something happened, such as an illness, abuse, a difficult home life, the death of our parents or siblings that created trauma and began to create the victim paradigm in our life. Without realizing it, that paradigm becomes our life template and determines the course our path will take. Then we attract people and situations that relate to and even enhance our victim template because that is the energy we vibrate with. When we wonder why people are not respectful, don’t honor us or seem to go out of their way to block us at every turn, or why our life is hard, we are unhappy, unlucky or unfulfilled, the answer lies in our victim paradigm. While we may feel very alone with our victim story, every person has one. Even the most accomplished person harbors a secret fear that they will become victim to some forgotten past incident, a newcomer who will overshadow them or be faced with a struggle that will reveal a weakness.
While we may not call ourselves a victim, our thoughts, beliefs and actions tell another story. A victim has many problems, disappointments, unmet expectations and unfulfilled dreams. They often think that others seem to be more lucky, gifted, blessed or connected than they are. A victim shares their victim stories with everyone because they want sympathy and to know that they are not alone in their unhappiness. They can have received ‘victim training’ from their family, which can have generational patterns of victim beliefs. And they become a victim of their own victim story. Then they attract victims and those who take advantage of them because when we are a victim we attract tyrants, people who need to control, manipulate or dominate others to feel powerful.
When we are operating from the victim paradigm we send out a silent message to others that we are powerless and that they are more powerful than we are. When we need help we can find someone who answers that call but if we give our power to them in return for their help, we are pushing ourselves farther into the victim paradigm. Then our savior and rescuer can become the person who controls us, so the savior becomes a tyrant and we step from one victim role to another. How can we release the victim paradigm, something many Lightworkers have come to do? First we must understand the reason for the victim paradigm and then make our choice even though we may be in a victim cycle as we are choosing.
Our spiritual journey can be compared to the Native American ceremony of soul retrieval, where a shaman takes the seeker on a journey to recapture the pieces of the soul that have been lost to past life traumas. In each lifetime we are provided with opportunities to heal ancient traumas that are buried within our soul memory and emotional DNA and to bring ourselves back to spiritual and emotional wholeness. These situations are revealed to us in the different ways we feel like a victim, the various trainings in ‘victimhood’ that we are offered, by those who agree to create victim opportunities for us. The journey to wholeness begins with our ability to find our spiritual center, where we can begin to reconnect to our power and start the journey to reconnecting with our power.
This is also the story of humanity’s journey from its beginning to now, the time when we are shifting into new vibrations of being. As a human family we have the opportunity to step out of the victim paradigm and to remember our Source connection, divinity and our power. Our victim stories are based in fact, in this lifetime and in previous ones. There are situations where people abused us, took advantage of us or did not do what we believe they should have done. But within each of these victim stories is a karmic lesson, a soul contract, and a starting point for our journey to forgiveness, transformation and closure.
We have a choice to remain a victim and continue to suffer in powerlessness or to bring the wounded pieces of our soul together and become victors, spiritual masters who understand the greater picture and can choose healing over pain, the present moment over the past and a life of abundance and fulfillment over lack and sorrow. We are all being given an opportunity to acknowledge our victim status and to choose another option, to create a new world paradigm where there are no victims and release this paradigm from the earth's energy forever.
About the author
Jennifer Hoffman is an intuitive, spiritual healer, mentor, teacher and author and channels the energy of the Archangel Uriel. Jennifer’s intuitive abilities go beyond psychic and into the realm of soul level communication, accessing a client’s soul’s desire for peace, joy and unconditional love. She is able to view the soul’s lifetime purpose, identify the soul contract, describe blocks, karmic imprints, negative patterning, messages and images and facilitate the ascension into the miracle vibration, where life becomes an effortless flow of joy and fulfillment. Her ability to view the dynamics of the soul’s journey allows her clients insights into how to achieve their highest possible vibration, miracle mastery. Everything that stands in the way of this goal can be transformed with willingness to change one’s life story from victim consciousness to spiritual mastery.
In her readings, Jennifer works with the Archangel Uriel, angels, guides and departed loved ones to help her clients gain clarity about their life purpose. Jennifer has helped many people through the Shift through her unique insights and counsel, facilitating their healing journey. Jennifer is the founder of www.urielheals.com, an on-line spiritual healing and growth center and dedicated to the messages and teachings of Archangel Uriel. Information about Jennifer's books, on-line seminars and services is available at her websites, or email healing@urielheals.com for information.
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