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Past Life Patterns – The Outcast

前世模式——弃儿模式

 原文：http://yoursoulmission.com/2014/01/past-life-patterns-the-outcast/

This is the description of one of the16 PastLife Patterns.These patterns were developed by Karen Downing, in order to help you understandhow past life experiences affect your life today. Each person carries 3 to 5 pastlife patterns in varying levels of influence. By understanding your unique mixof patterns, you can more easily build up your strengths and transform yourchallenges. Past life patterns are the key to uncovering your Soul Mission.

这篇是16个前世模式之一的描述。这些模式是Karen Downing总结出来的，为了帮助你理解前世经历如何影响你今生的生活。每一个人都携带着3-5个前世模式，他们有不同程度的影响。通过理解你个人的独特的前世模式组合，你可以更容易地增强你的力量并转化你的挑战。前世模式是发现你的灵魂使命的关键。

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Outcast Description – TheOutcast finds as many ways as possible to live at a distance from society. Thiscan be accomplished by living far away from others, or by distancing oneselffrom others while living amongst them. This distance can be createdemotionally, by isolation or by escapism. Whether physical or emotionaldistance, it serves to buffer The Outcast from becoming the potential target ofanother person’s judgments, opinions, emotions, conversation and/or beliefs.

弃儿模式

弃儿找得到尽可能多的方式来逃避社会。这可能伴随着居住在远离其他人的地方，或即使生活在人们当中也远离其他人。这种距离可以是在情感上制造的，通过隔离或逃避现实来实现。不管是物理距离还是情感距离，都充当了弃儿的缓冲，避免成为其他人的评判、意见、情感、对话和/或观念的潜在目标。

On the surface, The Outcast may appear to be aperfectly content person, happy to be by themselves. Yes, the Outcast is moreintroverted by preference; however, underneath this behavior there is a deepdown fear of being hurt, so it is simply easier to live at a distance fromothers. The Outcast is labeled as such because this individual has lived manypast lives where they have been shunned by society or their loved ones forvarious reasons.

在表面上，弃儿也许好像是一个完全满足的人，全靠自己也很开心。确实，弃儿性格比较内向更多是由于偏爱这样；然而，在这样的行为表面之下，有内心深深的恐惧害怕被伤害，所以远离他人只不过是更容易些。弃儿被贴上这样的标签是因为这个个体经历了许多前世经历，在这些经历里社会或他们的亲人由于各种各样的原因避开他们。

Some of the typical past life experiences of theOutcast are: being judged as unlovable/undesirable, being disowned by theirfamily, being thrown out of their community, having the person they love choosea different partner, being treated neglectfully, or being abandoned by theirfamily (in any stage of life).  If you ever worry about the people in yourlife leaving you, not communicating with you, or not “having your back”,especially to the point where that anticipation causes extreme anxiety orstress in your life, then you have experienced the Past Life Pattern of theOutcast.

有一些典型的弃儿的前世经历是：被评判为不可爱的人/不受欢迎的人，被他们的家庭否认（脱离关系），被他们的社区（/群体）抛弃，他们的爱人选了别的伴侣，被忽视地对待，或被他们的家庭（生命中任何阶段的家庭）抛弃。如果你曾担心你生活中的人们离你而去，不与你沟通，或者“不支持你”，尤其是达到了这种预期给你的生活造成了极端焦虑或压力的程度，那么你经历了弃儿的前世模式。

Expression of the Outcast Pattern in Your Life Now –The Outcast can experience such things as agoraphobia, an expectation of theirloved ones abandoning them, difficultly in showing vulnerability, worryingabout sharing their personal opinions or views publicly, body image issues,angry outbursts, and substance use/abuse for purposes of escaping theireveryday life. By reading about the two expressions of this pattern, you willbe able to recognize if you have The Outcast pattern from your past lifeexperiences.

弃儿模式在你现在生活中的表达

弃儿可能会经历这样的事情，如陌生环境恐惧症，期待他们的亲人会抛弃他们，很难展示他们的脆弱，担心公开分享他们的个人见解或观点，身体形象问题，愤怒爆发，和把物质使用/滥用在逃离他们日常生活的目的上。如果你有来自前世经历的弃儿模式，那么通过阅读这个模式的两种表达，你将能够识别出他们。

There are two ways that the Outcast theme revealsitself; The Angry Outcast and the Lonely Outcast. If you resonate with TheOutcast pattern, you might discover that you can possess qualities of one, oreven both of the ways that The Outcast is expressed. Often in one area of lifeyou can feel one way, and in another area of life feel another way.

弃儿主题有两种方式呈现其自身：即愤怒型弃儿以及孤独型弃儿。如果你与弃儿模式有共鸣，你也许会发现你可能会有以上两种弃儿表达模式中的一种或甚至两种都有。通常，在一个生活领域中，你可能感觉是一种样子，在另一个生活领域里，你感觉可能又是一个样子。

The Angry Outcast – The AngryOutcast assumes that every other person was, is, or will be angry at them.Therefore in order to not be at the receiving end of another person’s anger,The Angry Outcast often displays angry outbursts that serve as a buffer toprevent closeness of any kind. The Angry Outcast will start an argument (whichthey often refer to as a discussion) as soon as they catch the smallest ofglimpses that another person might not agree with them 100%. The Angry Outcasthas a tendency to escape life through addictive behaviors that push othersaway, and is reactionary to the energy of their past life pattern.

愤怒型弃儿

愤怒型弃儿假设每一个人过去曾经、现在、或将来会对他们发怒。因此，为了不成为其他人愤怒的接收者，愤怒型弃儿通常会显示出愤怒爆发，这愤怒充当缓冲作用来阻止任何形式的接近。愤怒型弃儿一抓住其他人有稍微一点点不是百分百同意他们就会开始争吵（他们通常称之为讨论）。愤怒型弃儿有一种倾向去通过成瘾行为来逃离生活，这种成瘾行为是会让其他人远离他们的行为，是对他们前世模式能量的反抗。

The Lonely Outcast – TheLonely Outcast can spend endless time alone. They do not wish for sociability,and do not need it. However, they do wish for lasting companionship, but findit difficult to open up to another person. Often they can be viewed as beingvery passive, and their family is always trying “to get them out of the house.”This is not really what they need, but instead need to learn to change theirperception of what happens outside of the their safety zone. The Lonely Outcastmay even deny that they would like to be in a relationship, instead saying thatthey are happy by themselves. The have even learned to isolate themselves fromopening up to the experience of unconditional love, in fact they are unsurethat it even exists. The Lonely Outcast has a tendency to escape life throughisolationism, and is suppressive of their past life pattern energy.

孤独型弃儿

孤独型弃儿可以独自一人度过无数的时间。他们不希望社交，并不需要社交。然而，他们确实希望持久的友谊，但是发现很难对他人敞开内心。通常，他们可能被视为非常被动的，并且他们的家人总是尽力“让他们从家里出去。”（译注：出去社交）这不见得是他们真正的需要，但是取而代之的是需要学习改变他们对在他们安全区外所发生事情的感知。孤独型弃儿也许甚至会否认他们愿意去谈恋爱，取而代之的是，他们很高兴靠自己。他们甚至已经学会了隔绝自己不去对那些对无条件爱的经历敞开内心，实际上，他们甚至不确定无条件爱的存在。孤独型弃儿有一种倾向通过隔离来逃离生活，是对他们前世模式能量的压抑。

Past Life Pattern Breakdown:

    - Trustissues with people

    - Fear ofJudgment

    - Fear ofAbandonment

    - Escapism

前世模式故障

    - 对人们信任方面的问题

    - 害怕评判

    - 害怕被抛弃

    - 逃避现实

Affirmation – “I let goof my expectation of pain. I am choosing to work on reaching out to others, inorder to heal myself. I approve of myself, and I only align myself with thosewho approve of me.”

肯定语

“我释放我对痛苦的期待。我正选择致力于接触他人，为了疗愈我自己。我满意我自己，我只与那些赞同我的人们相对齐。”

Learn more about how the Outcast pattern isshowing up in your life by enrolling in the On-Demand video course, ExploringPast Life Patterns.

了解更多有关弃儿模式如何出现在你的生活中，可以参加视频课程探索前世模式（英文）http://yoursoulmission.com/exploring-past-life-patterns/

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