2019-08-05

 

 

We realize that for many of you trust is an issue.We have spoken of how people are evolving and changing. The question so many of you have is, “How do you know it is safe to let someone back into your life if they have hurt you?”

 

我们意识到对许多人来说信任是一个问题。我们已经谈论过人们如何在进化与改变。你们很多人的疑问就是“你怎么知道让一个伤害过你的人回到你的生活中是安全的”

 

Most people, if they are being held accountable for actions that have been hurtful to others, will be anxious to smooth things over. They will promise to be different. They are invested in getting back to the way things were as quickly as possible. We understand that if you have been hurt, you are wanting to go back to before that hurt, as well. This can often lead to going back into a situation before real change has had a chance to occur.

 

大多数人,如果他们被追究伤害他人行为的责任,都会急于平息事态。他们会承诺改变。他们想要尽可能快速地返回常态。我们明白,如果你受到伤害,你也想要回到伤害之前。这经常会导致回到真正的改变有机会发现前的情况

 

People DO change and evolve, especially during such times of transformation. There are also people who have no intention of changing just yet. How do you know the difference? There are very specific things you will see in a person that is committed to change.

 

人们确实在改变和进化,尤其在这样的转变时期。也有着不想要改变的人。你怎么区分?在一个致力于改变的人之中你可以看到非常特定的东西

 

A person who is ready to change will demonstrate the following. There will be introspection and the realization that they no longer wish to continue the way they were.They will stop minimizing their behaviour and/or blaming others.

 

一个准备好改变的人会展示以下东西。会有反思和领悟,他们不再希望继续之前的方式。他们会停止最小化他们的行为或责备他人

 

They will be self responsible by owning both the problem and acknowledging the hurt they have caused you.They will have a true inner desire to change their behaviour and how they express themselves, followed by taking action steps toward that change.

 

他们会自我负责,通过承认他们导致的问题和对你造成的伤害。他们会真心想要改变他们的行为以及表达自己的方式,然后就是采取行动做出那个改变

 

They may not be perfect in their path toward change, but there will be consistency in their efforts. You will observe a shift in their integrity that indicates their personal growth, and they will become much more transparent as a result.

 

他们在朝向改变的道路上也许不是完美的,但他们的努力会是始终如一的。你会在他们的正直中看到一个转变,这表明他们个人的成长,他们会因此变得更加透明

 

Most people talk about who they want to be as a precursor to change. Their actions show you if that change is actually taking place. People who are committed to change and bettering themselves take action, do the work, and walk their talk.

 

大多数人谈论他们想要成为谁,作为改变的前导。他们的行为会展示你那个改变是否真的发生。承诺改变和改善自己的人会采取行动、做工作、身体力行

 

During such times of energetic intensity you will see people taking giant leaps forward that pleasantly surprise you. Love people enough to give them the room to grow and evolve by making decisions based on who they are today. Love yourself enough to use your wisdom to see when change is truly occurring and if a person is safe to allow back into your inner circle, or whether you must love them from afar.

 

在如此能量强烈的时期,你会看到人们迈出巨大的前进步伐,这会令你又惊又喜。足够爱人们来给予他们空间去成长和进化,通过基于他们今天的所是去做决定。足够爱自己来使用你的智慧去看到什么时候改变真的在发生,让那个人回到你的内部圈子是否安全,还是你必须从远距离爱他

 

Continue to do your own work knowing that is the only thing you truly have control over, and ultimately those efforts are always reflected back to you. And know that all of it has purpose, and that people will grow and evolve whenever it is divinely perfect for them and their own unique life expression. ~Archangel Gabriel through Shelley Young

 

继续去做你自己的工作,知晓,这是你真正唯一能够掌控的东西,最终那些努力总是会被反射回你。知晓,这一切都有着目的,人们会成长和进化,当对他们和他们独特的生命表达来说神圣的时机。~大天使加百利

 

原文:http://trinityesoterics.com/2019/08/04/daily-message-sunday-august-4-2019/

翻译:Nick Chan

 

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