We were recently asked by someone how they could be more loving toward their husband. They were not happy with how they were treating their partner, and wished to shift it.This is a common experience within relationships and we wished to discuss this today.

 

最近有人询问我们如何去更爱自己的丈夫。他们对自己对待伴侣的方式并不满意,希望改变。这是人际关系中一个常见的体验,我们今天来讨论一下

 

You cannot force yourself to be more loving if you do not feel loving. You cannot find a space of flow from the energy of resistance. You must add in another element that you are not resistant to. In the case of being more loving, we suggest you take your focus off love and put it on appreciation.

 

你无法强迫自己去变得更加有爱,如果你没有感觉到爱。你无法从抵抗的能量中找到一个流动的空间。你必须添加另一个你并不抵抗的元素。关于去变得更加有爱,我们建议你不要去专注于爱,而是去专注于欣赏

 

Simply focus on appreciating your partner. Look for the things you are grateful for that they do or say. Consciously choose to observe them, with an eye toward their wonderful traits. What are they good at? Think about all the ways their presence adds to your life.

 

专注于欣赏你的伴侣。在他们所做或所说的一切之中寻找你会感恩的。有意识地去观察他们,着眼于他们美好的特质。他们擅长什么?思考他们在你生活中所有的存在方式

 

If you do that, something magical will happen. Your love will suddenly begin to flow because you will have moved yourself into a space of non-resistance to them. You simply cannot appreciate something and resist it at the same time. Your appreciation will shift you into a heart space of love and acceptance, and from there you will connect with them in the loving way your soul has been wanting to do all along.~Archangel Gabriel through Shelley Young

 

如果你这么做,神奇的事情会发生。你的爱会突然开始流动,因为你将自己移动到了一个对他们不抵抗的空间。你无法欣赏某样东西的同时抵抗它。你的欣赏会将你转变到一个爱与接纳的心之空间,从那里,你会在你灵魂一直希望的有爱方式中与他们连接。~大天使加百利

 

原文:http://trinityesoterics.com/2019/04/22/daily-message-monday-april-22-2019/

翻译:Nick Chan

来源:https://www.douban.com/note/715539066/

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