如是說999

Dear Ones,

亲爱的一们

You have likely discovered that despite your best attempts, you are feeling somewhat burdened by the holiday activities. Such is so because you are not only fulfilling 3D commitments, you are also allowing, even encouraging new skills and directions within you.

你可能已经发现，尽管你尽了最大的努力，因节日的活动你感到很累。这是因为你不仅在履行3D的承诺，你还在允许、甚至鼓励内在的新技能与方向

What you are not yet aware of is that you are also likely to feel more joy than expected throughout the next few days. Such is so because you have climbed and conquered the mountain of guilt, shame, lack of self-love, and fear that was your 3D being lifetime after lifetime. Instead of wishing and hoping, you are beginning to feel the need to change, to create experiences that better meet your inner needs.

你还未意识到的是，在接下来的几天你也可能会感到更多的喜悦，比起期望的。这是因为你已经登上和征服了内疚、羞愧、自爱的缺乏、恐惧的山峰（你一生又一生的3D情况）。与其希望和期望，你在开始感到需要去改变，去创造更好满足你内在需求的体验

Even though you have prepared for months, years, even decades, it was only recently you allowed your inner-being to direct you. For you believed lifetime after lifetime that your directives were dependent on those wiser or wealthier than you.

即使你已经准备了好几个月、很多年、甚至几十年，直到最近你才允许让你的内在引领你。因为你一生又一生地相信你的指令依赖于比你明智或富有的人

Such is not to say you are completely free of 3D dictates, but that you question far beyond what you ever have. No longer are you willing to appease someone at your expense – emotionally or physically.

这不是说你已经完全自由于3D的指令，而是你在质疑你所持有的。你不再愿意对他人妥协，以你情感或身体为代价

You are ready to create your new life. A life which may include those you now hold dear – or not. You are a new being in a new physical body.

你已经准备好去创造你的新生活。一个包含你现在珍视之人的生活---或者不包含。你是新物理身体中的新存在

Perhaps such a declaration does not seem that important now. But as you adjust to new you with new needs, you will understand what we are speaking of. For this need to create a new life is little different from what was true when we suggested you explore self-love.

也许这样的声明现在看似不重要。但随着你伴随着新的需求适应新的你，你会明白我们在说什么。因为创造一个新生活的需求和当我们建议你探索自爱的时候没什么不同

The 3-D phrase of self-love held little meaning for you until you started living in self-love.

自爱的3D术语对你来说没什么意义直到你开始生活于自爱

So it is for your creations. Your first creative wishes were perhaps of items that would propel you forward in your societal domain – a new car, home, bigger television, etc. That is until you began questioning the need of others to discount, ignore, blame, or shame you.

你的创造也是这样。你的第一个创造性的心愿也许是会推动你在社会领域前进的东西---一辆新车、一个新家、更大的电视机等等。直到你开始质疑他人贬低、忽视、责备或羞辱你的需求

Instead of accepting “browbeating” as part of your expected life, you felt the need to talk back, respond, deflect, ignore, or leave.

与其接纳“吓唬”是你预期生活的一部分，你感到需要顶嘴、回应、转移、忽视或离开

So it is now. You are shifting from pleasing everyone to knowing that before you can truly please anyone, you must please yourself. For your happiness, your joy is your light. Such is so because more and more beings of the earth are tired of the moodiness, anger, physical violence, betrayal, arrogance, and all other pieces that encourage anyone to feel less than they are.

现在就是这样。你在从取悦每个人转变到知晓（在你可以真正取悦任何人之前，你必须取悦自己）。因为你的幸福，你的喜悦是你的光芒。这是因为越来越多的人厌倦了情绪化、愤怒、暴力、背叛、傲慢、所有鼓励他人感到比自己所是要差的东西

Others will begin to question your joy.

其他人会开始质疑你的喜悦

Even if you have not yet pinpointed where your joy originates, you will soon enough. For your joy is dependent on your freedom of thought and action. As you allow those pieces to flow, so will your joy expand through and around you.

即使你还未指出你喜悦的来源，你很快就会的。因为你的喜悦取决于你思想与行动的自由。随着你允许这些碎片流动，你的喜悦会通过你和围绕着你扩张

You are your own guru means that no one but you can make you sad or happy.

你是自己的上师，意味着没人除了你可以让你悲伤或开心

As you claim the energies now pummeling earth, you will decide sadness is no longer your friend. And that despite others’ tales of fear and anger, such is their choice, not yours.

随着你宣称正在轰击地球的能量，你会决定悲伤不再是你的朋友。尽管有着他人的恐惧与愤怒故事，那是他们的选择，不是你的

Until now, you have felt the need to sense and then respond to fears and anger, pushing aside your joys in compliance with the woes of others. “How can I be joyful if my friend is suffering?”

直到现在，你感到有必要去感受恐惧和愤怒然后做出响应，并抛开你的喜悦来匹配他人的困境。“如果我的朋友在受苦，我怎么能快乐？”

Instead of accepting that your joy is a more important healing tool than sympathetic woes can ever be, you compromised your joy to meet the needs of others.

与其接受你的喜悦是比同情困境更重要的疗愈工具，你牺牲你的喜悦来满足他人的需求

If everyone creates their life – and they do – why do you need to play their game instead of yours? Is it not more fun to play than to cry?

如果每个人创造自己的生活---他们确实是---你为什么要去玩耍他们的游戏，而不是你的？玩耍难道不比哭泣更有趣？

As a child, your best friend was most often someone fun to play and talk with. So it is now only in reverse. For you are in a new role in a new time.

作为一个孩子，你最好的朋友通常是能和你玩得开心、谈得开心的人。现在只是反过来了。因为你处于新时代中的新角色

Perhaps those friends and family who continue to feel the need for fear and pain will wish to be with you – or not. That is not your decision – it is theirs. Just as you are now declaring your freedom from fear.

也许那些继续感到有必要去恐惧和痛苦的朋友与家人会希望处于你身边---或者不希望。这不是你的决定---这是他们的。就像你现在宣称你已经自由于恐惧

Many of you wonder what you should do or say to those with physical ailments or emotional stresses. What do you wish to say? Do you wish to console them? Exit from the relationship or help repair them emotionally or physically?

你们许多人想知道应该对那些身体有疾病或有情感压力的人说些什么或做些什么。你希望说什么？你希望安慰他们吗？从关系中退出或者情感上或身体上修复他们？

The only choice you no longer have is to try to make them whole at your expense.

你不再拥有的一个选项就是你付出代价来使得他们完整

For you are no longer willing to placate, coddle, or take care of them if they are not willing to care for themselves. Such will be your deciding factor. If they wish you to deny your truth to take care of them because they are too afraid, too lazy or too stuck in fear to do so for themselves, you will not be interested in furthering that relationship.

因为你不再愿意去安慰、溺爱、照顾他们，如果他们自己都不愿意去照顾自己。这会是你的决定性因素。如果他们希望你去否认自己的真理来照顾他们，因为他们很害怕、太懒或深陷于恐惧，以至于无法照顾自己，你不会有兴趣进一步发展这段人际关系

Some of you worry that such a statement indicates new you is selfish and unsocial. The opposite is true for you are claiming yourself in a new joy environment. Something you have planned for and dedicated yourself to for eons.

你们一些人担心这样的说法表明新的你是自私的、不合群的。恰恰相反，因为你宣称你处于一个新的喜悦环境中。这是你计划以及致力于恒久的

You are free and so is everyone.

你是自由的，每个人都是自由的

How often do you expect others to take care of you? Most likely, you – because of your strengths – have been the designated caretaker for many of those you hold in your heart. But doing so is no different from a parent protecting their child from all pain and then suddenly thrusting them into the world expecting them to function in a world filled with fear and failure.

你有多频繁希望别人来照顾你？最有可能的是，你---出于你的长处---被认定为许多你珍爱之人的看护人。但这么做无异于父母保护自己的孩子免受所有的痛苦，然后突然把他们扔到世界中，期望他们能够在一个充满恐惧和失败的世界运行

You forerunners are the joyful guides of those who wish to follow. Commiserating and taking care of their pain does not help you – and most certainly creates fear in them as they realize they cannot be like you. For they will continue to hold 3D fears without knowledge of how to eradicate or complete their clearing process as you needed to do before you discovered self-love.

你，先驱，是那些希望跟随之人的喜悦指导。同情和照顾他们的痛苦并不能帮助你---肯定会在他们之中创造恐惧，随着他们意识到他们无法像你一样。因为他们会继续保持3D的恐惧而不知道如何消除或完结他们的清理进程，就像你在发现自爱前需要做的

You are not selfish or fearful. You are the joy example that will only strengthen as you declare your freedom to be and the same for all. So be it. Amen.

你并不自私或充满恐惧。你是喜悦的榜样，随着你宣称你的自由是所有人都可以获取的，会被加强。就是如此。阿门

通灵：Brenda Hoffman

翻译：Nick Chan

https://lifetapestrycreations.wordpress.com/2018/12/23/are-you-compromising-joy/