如是說999

 2018-09-27

For enlightening human beings, how you interact with your family members and significant others can be the most challenging area to transform. This is because it is the area where your conditioning is greatest, and old habits can be well established, running automatically without your conscious awareness.

對於開明的人類，你如何與家庭成員以及其他有意義之人交互會是最具有挑戰性的轉變領域。這是因為這個領域是你的條件/狀況最大的地方，舊的習性會很好地建立，自動地運行，而你卻意識不到

So how do you address this? Just like with any other area you wish to evolve, with intention, your true desire to change, and greater awareness. The key is to step out of automatic responses, into more conscious interaction. Try to be more aware. If you catch yourself reacting unconsciously, stop and feel into the situation. Is this an old pattern that doesn't even match who you are anymore? How would you like to approach this now, based on your latest level of attainment?

那麼你如何處理？就像其他你希望發展的領域，伴隨著意圖，對改變的渴望，以及更大的意識。關鍵是離開自動反應，進入更有意識的交互。試著變得更有意識。如果你發現自己無意識地反應，停下來，感受情況。這是不再匹配你所是的一個舊模式嗎？現在你想要如何處理它，基於你最新的成就水平？

If you have already reacted in an old way that doesn't match how you would like to approach things now, simply address it in that moment. Apologize and readjust. This is a powerful act of shifting the energy.

如果你現在就已經在舊的方式（並不匹配你想要處理事物的方式）中反應，就在當下處理它。道歉並調整。這是一個強大的轉變能量的行為

Consciously practice empathy for your loved ones. Try to look at them with new eyes and feel into their perspective. Take an observant role. What are they afraid of? What are they struggling with? What do they need to feel safe and loved? What can you do to break the old pattern of interaction?

為你心愛的人有意識地實踐同理心。試著伴隨著新的眼光看待他們並感受他們的觀點。拾起善於觀察的角色。他們在害怕什麼？他們在掙扎於什麼？他們對什麼需要感到安全和被愛？你可以做什麼來打破舊的交互模式？

Practice self awareness. What is looking to be acknowledged and healed within yourself to release these old patterns? Are you practicing self care? The more aligned and balanced you are, the more you will be able to stay in an empowered space while interacting with those you love.

實踐自我意識。什麼在你之內尋求被認識到並被療愈以便釋放這些舊的模式？你在實踐自我關懷嗎？你越對齊和平衡，你越能夠處於授權的境地，同時與你愛的人交互

Last, we suggest you be the love. Being the love doesn't mean you accept being treated inappropriately by anyone. It is never loving to support someone in showing up in such a limited version of self. Sometimes it is necessary to anchor love and make the choice to love someone from afar until they can learn to interact in ways that are more appropriate. Holding the space with boundaries that support wellness and healthier connection is transformative.

最後，我們建議你去成為愛。成為愛並不意味著接納被任何人不恰當地對待。支持別人在如此有限的自我版本中呈現從未是有愛的。有時候有必要去錨定愛並選擇從遠處愛別人，直到他們學會在更恰當的方式中交互。伴隨著支持福祉與更健康連接的邊界保持空間是具有改·革能力的

Be easy with yourself and others as you create these new ways of interacting. Big changes come from small consistent steps. If you fall into reactivity or old patterns, simply be aware and redirect. Like anything else, with practice it will become easier and easier .

善待自己和他人，隨著你創造這些新的交互方式。巨大的改變來自始終如一的小步伐。如果你落入自發性的反應或舊模式，只是去意識到並重新定向。就像其他東西，通過練習，它會變得更容易，更簡單

So lead with love, Dear Ones, both for yourself and those closest to you as you tackle this area of​​ transformation, and you will be able to change your dance with others into something much more enjoyable for everyone involved. ~Archangel Gabriel through Shelley Young

所以伴隨著愛引領，親愛的一們，為你自己以及與你親密的人，隨著你解決這個轉變的領域，你將能夠改變你與他人的舞蹈，將它變成對每個涉及的人來說更令人享受的東西。~大天使加百利

翻譯：Nick Chan