Dear Ones, the people who push your energetic buttons are the very ones who are showing up to help you master your boundaries and get clear about what energy is in resonance with you or not. As the empowered leader of your own life expression, you are absolutely within your rights to say no to anything that is not empowering, uplifting, supportive, or honouring you and your sovereignty.
Just as a good parent will step in to keep their child protected from anything that isn’t appropriate, you get to do the same thing for yourself, as your own loving parent, guide, and best friend. Your own safe and nurturing environment is essential for your continued growth and expansion. The more someone activates you the more you are looking for your own love, protection, and guidance in that area of your life.
You don’t have to get upset or stay focused on what is unwanted. The fastest way to redirect is to simply say no thank you and move along. Much like the algorithms that are used on your internet to keep track of your preferences, your focus is what keeps something active in your reality. Being able to stay in a place of balance and move on past what doesn’t resonate or support you in being your best self without pushing against it is what keeps you refining your own sacred space. ~Archangel Gabriel through Shelley Young