如是說999

Dear Ones, if you are always telling others what they should do, while it may be coming from a place of love, it will ultimately be disempowering to them. At best, constantly stepping in sends the message you don’t believe a person is qualified to run their own life, which has the potential to feed fear and doubt. At worst, it encourages them to give their power away to the opinions of others.

亲爱的一们，如果你总是在告诉别人他们应该怎么做，虽然这可能是出于爱而这么做的，最终会使他们失去力量。最好的情况---不断地介入，发送给他们你不相信他有能力运转自己生活的信息，这有着灌输恐惧和怀疑的潜能。最坏的情况---会鼓励他们把自己的力量交付给他人的观点

Further, it perpetuates separation in your own relationships because the underlying theme is that you feel more advanced or somehow above the other rather than simply connecting with them from a space of unconditional love and acceptance.

此外，这会延续你人际关系中的分离，因为潜在的主题就是你感到自己比其他人更加超前或优越，而不是从无条件之爱和接纳境地与他们连接

It is much like seeing that someone signed up to take an aptitude test to see how much they have learned and then sitting down next to them and giving them all the answers. It would be very difficult for them to gauge their own wonderful capability! Constantly stepping in for another can also deny them the joy of the unfoldment, the joy of self discovery, and the joy of connecting with their own inner guidance systems.

这就像看到有人报名参加一个能力测试，想看看他们学会了多少，然后你坐到他们身边，给予他们所有的答案。他们会难以衡量自己奇妙的能力！不断地介入也会否认他们展开的喜悦、自我发现的喜悦、与自身内在指引系统连接的喜悦

Love others enough to let them find their own way. Share open-heartedly if they come to you for guidance in a way that is empowering to all. Trust that they will learn and grow because they have their own team of helpers and their own beautiful, capable soul at the helm. Encourage those you love to explore their own truths and abilities and celebrate their successes! To do so honours the free will and and highest soul expression of all, which is exactly what your guides do for you. ~Archangel Gabriel through Shelley Young

足够爱他人来让他们找到自己的道路。衷心地分享，如果他们向你前来寻求指引，在授权所有人的方式中。相信他们会学习并成长，因为他们有着自己的助手团队，自己美丽、能干的灵魂在掌舵。鼓励那些你爱的人去探索他们自己的真理和能力并庆祝他们的成功！这么做就是荣耀所有人的自由意志以及最高的灵魂表达，这正是你的指导为你在做的。~大天使加百利

翻译：Nick Chan