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For enlightening human beings, how you interact with your family members and significant others can be the most challenging area to transform. This is because it is the area where your conditioning is greatest, and old habits can be well established, running automatically without your conscious awareness.

對於覺醒的人類，如何與家庭成員以及其他相關人士交流可能會是最具有挑戰性的領域。因為這個領域是與你的條件/狀況有關的最大區域，舊的習性會很好地建立，在你沒有意識到的情況下自動運行。

So how do you address this? Just like with any other area you wish to evolve, with intention, your true desire to change, and greater awareness. The key is to step out of automatic responses, into more conscious interaction. Try to be more aware. If you catch yourself reacting unconsciously, stop and feel into the situation. Is this an old pattern that doesn't even match who you are anymore? How would you like to approach this now, based on your latest level of attainment?

那麼你如何處理這個問題呢？就像你希望進化的任何其他領域一樣，伴隨著意圖，對改變的渴望，以及更高的意識。關鍵是要走出自動化反應模式，進入更有意識的互動。試著變得更有意識。如果你發現自己在不知不覺中開始無意識地反應，那就停下來感受一下。它是不再匹配你之所是的一個舊模式嗎？現在你希望根據你最新的成就水如何處理它呢？

If you have already reacted in an old way that doesn't match how you would like to approach things now, simply address it in that moment. Apologize and readjust. This is a powerful act of shifting the energy.

如果你現在就已經處在並不匹配你想要處理事物的舊方式中反應，那麼只需在當下處理它。道歉並重新調整。這是一個強大的轉變能量的行為。

Consciously practice empathy for your loved ones. Try to look at them with new eyes and feel into their perspective. Take an observant role. What are they afraid of? What are they struggling with? What do they need to feel safe and loved? What can you do to break the old pattern of interaction?

有意識地去同理你所愛的人。試著用新的眼光去看待他們並感受他們的視角。採取一個善於觀察的角色。去理解到他們在害怕什麼？他們在掙扎於什麼？他們需要什麼才能感到安全和被愛？你能做些什麼來打破舊的互動模式？

Practice self awareness. What is looking to be acknowledged and healed within yourself to release these old patterns? Are you practicing self care? The more aligned and balanced you are, the more you will be able to stay in an empowered space while interacting with those you love.

練習保持自我意識。在你之內尋求被承認、被療癒、被釋放的舊模式是那些？你在實踐自我關懷嗎？你越是對齊和平衡，你就越能夠在與你愛的人交流的同時處於授權的境地。

Last, we suggest you be the love. Being the love doesn't mean you accept being treated inappropriately by anyone. It is never loving to support someone in showing up in such a limited version of self. Sometimes it is necessary to anchor love and make the choice to love someone from afar until they can learn to interact in ways that are more appropriate. Holding the space with boundaries that support wellness and healthier connection is transformative.

最後，我們建議你去成為愛。成為愛並不意味著接受任何人不恰當地對待。支持別人明白他們是在如此有限的自我版本中所呈現出的無愛狀態。有時候有必要去錨定愛並選擇從遠處來愛一個人，直到他們學會以更恰當的方式進行互動。伴隨著支持福祉與更健康連接的邊界保持空間是具有變革性的。

Be easy with yourself and others as you create these new ways of interacting. Big changes come from small consistent steps. If you fall into reactivity or old patterns, simply be aware and redirect. Like anything else, with practice it will become easier and easier.

在你創造這些新的互動模式的同時善待自己和他人。巨大的改變來自目標始終如一的小步伐。如果你陷入自動化反應或舊模式，只需要去意識到它並重新定向。就像其他任何東西一樣，通過練習，它會變得更容易，更簡單。

So lead with love, Dear Ones, both for yourself and those closest to you as you tackle this area of transformation, and you will be able to change your dance with others into something much more enjoyable for everyone involved. ~Archangel Gabriel

所以帶著愛，親愛的一們，無論是為了你自己還是那些最接近你的人，當你解決這個轉變領域時，你將能夠改變你與他人的舞蹈，將它變成對每個涉及的人來說都更加愉快的事情。

~大天使加百利

原文：https://trinityesoterics.com/daily-message/

翻译：Nick Chan

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