如是說999

2019-08-28

Dear Ones,

亲爱的一们

You are shifting from acquiescing to the needs of others to informing them of your thoughts and feelings. You are no longer the agreeable mime that others want you to be.

你在从勉强同意他人的需求转变到告知他们你的想法和感受。你不再是他人想要你成为的令人愉快的“小丑”

Of course, this information is not new. What is new is that you no longer feel guilty about your truth. You no longer wonder if someone’s feelings are hurt or worry that others might not care for you if you do not participate.

当然，这个信息不是什么新鲜玩意儿。新鲜的是你不再对你的真理感到内疚。你不再想要知道如果你不参与，别人是否会伤心，或，你不再担心别人会不再喜欢你

So it is you are feeling feisty, adhering to your inner principles even though others might be angry or bewildered by your actions.

所以你感到充满活力，坚持你内心的原则，即使他人可能会因为你的行为生气或困惑

For eons, you have known you are powerful. But you used that power to fit in instead of becoming.You were an easy target for anyone who needed something you could or would provide as a caretaker.

恒久以来，你知道你是强大的。但你把那个力量用于融入而不是成为。你是一个容易被瞄上的目标，因为任何人需要什么，你都能够或可以作为一个照看者提供

Now that you are exploring your inner-power, you are a stronger, more vocal being.Someone who no longer sifts through the needs and thoughts of others before finding your voice. So it is others are surprised –and not always pleasantly so –by your new demeanor.

现在，你在探索内在的力量，你是一个更加强大、更加直言不讳的存在。在找到自己的声音之前过滤掉他人的需求和想法（译注：这句话有点不解）。所以他人因你新的行为感到惊讶---并不总是高兴

Those impacted by your new voice might try to return you to who you were. And that is when you will surprise yourself and others with your declaration of freedom. The freedom to be without the constraints of who others want or need you to be.

那些被你新的声音影响的人可能会试图让你返回之前的所是。这时你会伴随着你对自由的宣言令自己和他人震惊。“不带他人想要或需要你去成为什么的约束”的自由

This freedom, this voice will be raw without the sugar-coating of social graces. You are exhausted by the current earth chaos. So it is you are unwilling to roll back your thoughts and beliefs to those which better suit those around you.

这个自由，这个声音会是粗糙的，没有“社交礼仪-糖衣”的包裹。你被当前的地球混乱弄得筋疲力竭。所以你不愿意将你的思想和信念降低到和那些人一样的水平

You are rapidly discovering that trying to fit in, to be the nice boy or girl you were trained to be, is more uncomfortable than you ever imagined. A bit like those musically inclined finding it painful when they hear the wrong note in a song.

你在快速发现---试图融入、成为你被训练去成为的乖男孩或女孩，比你想象的更令人不适。有点像那些拥有音乐天赋的人听到一首歌中错误的音调时会发现这很令人痛苦

Those around you will want you to return to the kind, gentle person with whom they have always interacted. You are the caretaker of the world are you not? For that is what they expect of you. And that is what used to give you comfort –hiding behind a false caretaking curtain as you ignored your needs and powers.A bit like Clark Kent never entering the phone booth to become Superman.

你周围的人会想要你返回他们总是在交互的友善、温和的人。你是世界的照看者，不是吗？因为这就是他们对你的期望。这就是曾经给予你舒适的---隐藏在一个虚假的照看帘幕后，忽视你自己的需求和力量。就像克拉克·肯特从未进入电话亭去变成超人

Now you superwomen and men not only want to be discovered, it is necessary that you are.For the world, the Universes are waiting.

现在你们这些超女和超人不仅想要被发现，这还是有必要的。因为世界，宇宙等待着你

Likely, you have no interest in saving the world. By being yourself, you are saving the world. For until you force others to take responsibility for themselves, you will continue to pretend to be someone you are not.

有可能你对拯救世界不感兴趣。通过做自己，你就是在拯救世界。因为在你迫使他人去为自己负责之前，你会继续假装你所不是的人

Humans do not change until the discomfort is painful enough to do so. If you continue to catch others when they fall, they will never be uncomfortable enough to change.

人类不会改变直到不适无法忍受。如果你继续在他人跌倒的时候扶助他们，他们永远不会足够不适去改变

Just as it is not appropriate for you to always pick up your children’s toys because it is easier, it is also no longer appropriate to ensure that others do not fail or fall. You are only responsible for you. And the same is true for all.

就像让你总是去捡起你孩子的玩具（因为这很容易做）并不是恰当的，同样，去确保别人不会跌倒或失败也不再是恰当的。你只需为自己负责。这适用于所有人

So it is that you are feeling exhausted, emotionally drained. Even though your caretaking role no longer feels right, others fully expect you to continue, so they do not have to take responsibility for their actions. Imagine those following you as children wanting you to pick up their toys –just as was true for you when you started your transition.

所以你感到筋疲力竭，情绪低落。即使你的照看角色不再感觉正确，其他人则完全期望你继续下去，这样他们不用为自己的行为负责。想象那些跟随你的人就像想要你捡起玩具的孩子---就像当你开始转变时的那样

At the beginning of your transition, you constantly asked for direction and assistance, crying out that this transition was too difficult for you to bear.We countered with, “You’re your own guru”and thousands of other words encouraging you to become you.

在你转变的一开始，你不断地请求方向和协助，哭喊着这个转变太难。我们反驳道“你是自身的大师”以及用其它话语来鼓励你去成为自己

So it is now that those following want you to do their work for them. They will try many emotional ploys to once again ensure you are engaged in their life. For how much easier it would be for them if you guided them through the rough parts by holding their hand and using your super-duper sword of light to cut through their pain? You wished for the same throughout much of your journey. And even though we often wanted to make it easier for you, we knew doing so would merely prolong your pain.

所以现在，那些跟随的人想要你去为他们做工作。他们会尝试许多情感策略来再次确保你参与到他们的生活中去。因为如果你指引他们通过艰难的部分（通过拉着他们的手并用你非凡的光剑斩断他们的痛苦）会更加容易。在你的大部分旅程中你也这么希望过。即使我们经常想要让你变得轻松点，我们知道这么做只会延长你的痛苦

So it is for you now. You are no longer caretakers, your brothers or sisters keepers. You are you with new powers to explore. Powers that are you being you without the filters of who society or those following want you to be.

你现在就是这样。你不再是照看者、你兄弟姐妹的保姆。你是你，伴随着新的力量去探索。你成为自己而拥有的力量，没有社会或跟随你的人想要你去成为的“过滤器”

All involved in this transition must find their own voice. Such will only happen if all are allowed to do so.

所有参与这个转变的人必须找到自己的声音。这只会在所有人被允许去这么做的时候发生

But we forewarn you that just as was true for you in your dark night of the soul and phases thereafter, those following will expect you to help them carry their burdens. That is not your role. Your role is to allow them to see and sense the outcomes of daring to be free.

但我们预先警告你，就像在你灵魂的暗夜以及之后的阶段，那些跟随的人会期望你去帮助他们，携带他们的负担。这不是你的角色。你的角色是让他们去看到和感到敢于追求自由而来的结果

You are not a caretaker. You are not their parent. You are not their guru. Your role and only role is to be free of the social and personal constraints that dim the light necessary to shine more brightly than hate and fear.

你不是照看者。你不是他们的父母。你不是他们的大师。你的角色，唯一的角色就是自由于社会和个人的约束（会黯淡比仇恨与恐惧更加明亮的光）

Allow those following to find their place, their joy. For their joy is no longer your responsibility even though you may have played that role in this life and many others.They must find their path which they cannot do if you carry them on YOUR path –slowing or halting your growth. So be it. Amen.

让那些跟随的人找到他们的位置，他们的喜悦。因为他们的喜悦不再是你的责任，即使你可能在此生和其它生世中扮演过那个角色。他们必须找到自己的道路，如果你在你的道路上背负他们，他们就无法找到---这也会减缓或停滞你的成长。就是如此。阿门

原文：https://lifetapestrycreations.wordpress.com/2019/08/26/stop-carrying-others-on-your-path/

通灵：Brenda Hoffman

翻译：Nick Chan