如是說999

2018-11-21

As you continue along your healing journey, many old patterns and habits will be up for review and for change. What often accompanies this is a need for the readjustment of boundaries.

随着你继续你的疗愈之旅，许多旧的模式和习性会出现来被审视和改变。经常随之而来的会是需要对边界做出重新的调整

Healthy boundaries have been a major theme for enlightening human beings. Simply put, healthy boundaries are about creating a space that is loving and empowering for all. What that means may shift or move according to each individual situation.

健康的边界对开明的人来说一直是一个重大的主题。简而言之，健康的边界会创造一个有爱和授权的空间，为所有人。这意味着每个人可以根据自己的情况转变或移动

A simple rule of thumb you may wish to use as you explore the creation of healthy boundaries is to simply make sure that you are never more invested in another person’s wellness than they are in their own, and to make sure you are not more invested in another person’s wellness more than you are in your own. Making sure if you do step up to give assistance you are doing it from your heart and not from obligation or an unhealthy desire to control is important. To give under such circumstances often leads to resentment.

随着你探索健康的边界，你会希望使用的一个简单的经验法则就是确保永远不要比他人对他们的福祉花费更多的精力，确保永远不要对他人的福祉所花费的精力比对你自己的花费的要多。确保，如果你确实要去提供协助，根据你的心去做，而不是义务或不健康的控制渴望，这很重要。因为在那样的情况中付出常常会导致不满

You are wise, Dear Ones, and by simply stopping and evaluating from your latest level of mastery, you will be able to find the place that supports everyone in showing up in their highest expression of self. Sometimes that might mean stepping in with others to help stabilize them during crisis, other times it might be stepping back and offering encouragement so they can find their own divine capability. Allow your boundaries to be part of the flow of support, love, and wellness for all, and you cannot make a mistake. ~Archangel Gabriel through Shelley Young

你是睿智的，亲爱的一们，通过停下来，根据你最新的精通水平评估，你将能够找到支持每个人在最高的自我表达中呈现的境地。有时候这可能意味着介入帮助处于危机的人保持稳定，其他时候可能意味着后退一步，提供鼓励，这样他们可以找到自己神圣的能力。让你的边界成为支持、爱、所有人福祉流动的一部分，你不会出错的。~大天使加百利

翻译：Nick Chan