如是說999

 2018-02-22

An amazing thing happens when you make your self care a priority. At first you may need to concentrate more on yourself if you have had a habit of putting others consistently ahead of your own needs in order to get yourself balanced out. But then what will happen is you will have more patience, more energy, and more stability for others because you will already have everything you need. Your self care serves everyone, and sets a wonderful model for others to honour their own needs, too. To be clear, selfishness serves the one, while self care serves the whole. There is nothing selfish about making your own self care equally important as everyone else’s. ~Archangel Gabriel through Shelley Young

当你把自我关照作为优先考虑，一件惊人的事情发生。一开始你可能需要更加地专注于自身，如果你已经习惯总是把别人放在你自己需求的前头，为了让自己失衡。但之后会发生什么，你会有更多的耐心，精力，稳定性，提供给他人，因为你早已拥有你所需的一切。你的自我关怀服务每个人，设置了一个美妙的模型，让他人也去荣耀自己的需求。要说清楚的是，自私服务自己，而自我关怀服务整体。让自我关怀等同于关照他人跟自私一点关系都没有。~大天使加百利

翻译：Nick Chan