如是說999

2017-12-23 奥修每日分享

HELPING 助人

Just be as happy as you can. Don't think about others. if you are happy, your happiness will help others. You cannot help, but your happiness can.

让自己尽可能的开心。不要想着别人。如果你开心，你的开心会帮到别人。你帮不了别人，但你的开心可以。

You cannot help-you will destroy - but your happiness can help. Happiness has its own ways of working - very indirect, very subtle, feminine.

你帮不了人——你会把别人毁了——但你的开心帮得了人。开心有它自己的方式——非常间接，非常微妙，很女性化。

When you start working your energy becomes aggressive, and if you start trying to help others they will resist. They will resist unknowingly, because it seems as if somebody has the upper hand, and nobody wants to be liberated by anybody else. Nobody wants to be made happy by anybody else, because that seems to be a dependence, so a deep resistance comes in.

当你开始助人，你的能量会变得有攻击性，如果你开始试图助人，他们就会抗拒。他们会无意识的抗拒，因为这看起来就像别人占上风，没人想被别人解放。没有人想要被别人弄的开心，因为那像是依赖，所以他内心深处出现了抗拒。

Simply don't be worried about it. That is the other person's business. You have done nothing to cause anybody else's problems. They have earned them through many lives, so they have to drop them.

所以别为之担心。那是别人的事情。你没有做什么让别人招致麻烦。那些麻烦是他们活了无数世挣来的，所以他们必须自己放下它们。

Just be happy, and your happiness will give others courage. Your happiness will give them impetus and a stimulation, a challenge. Your happiness will give them some idea of what it will be like when they say yes. That's all...

保持开心就好，你的开心会带给别人勇气。你的开心会带给他们动力、鼓舞和挑战。你的开心会让他们去想，自己说“是”时事情会如何。仅此而已……